A heart-thumping 20-year-old: It’s difficult to calm down and it turns out to be a joke

Once upon a time, consuming CP has become a way for modern people to relieve stress. Do you still remember the "20 Years Old" that just ended? As the ceiling of domestic love variety shows, I became a "knock" expert at that time, and I knocked hard on a cp, which tells the travel story of their heartbeat, love, and growth when they were 20 years old.

It is said that the sincerity of youth is always moving. Originally, the most difficult couple in "Twenty Years Old" should be Mayfair and Zhuo. During the final meeting, Zhuo even admitted that he likes her. Mayfair, but in the early morning of July 26, A Zhuo's house completely collapsed, and his initial difficulty turned into a joke. An entry about "Miss Wang Zhengzhuo y really likes her" became one of the hottest searches on Weibo. Wang Zhengzhuo has always been in two different situations due to work. The only one who was kept in the dark during the whole process was Zhu Feier. In the show Is everything just an act? Such confusing behavior made Fei'er feel unworthy. It has to be said that whether you are an amateur or a celebrity, if you have a girlfriend, you should keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex. Even though Wang Zhengzhuo had a girlfriend in real life, he also deceived Feier Zhu into speculating with her, which undoubtedly hurt the two girls.

The disagreement between Fei'er and Zhuo turned out to be a joke, so how do you maintain your sobriety in an intimate relationship?

1. Be clear about your own bottom line

Never lower your bottom line just because you love the other person, otherwise the other person will despise you, the boundaries between friends and the boundaries between boyfriend and girlfriend You must make it clear that there are not so many innocent people in the adult world. If you don’t like someone, don’t let others misunderstand you. Ad Zhuo concealed the fact that he was dating Fei’er. Ad Zhuo was eating the food from the bowl and looking at the pot. He was really doing it for Fei’er. Feeling worthless.

2. When girls fall in love, they must not be a headstrong person, and don’t be a love-minded person.

Girls who are in love are prone to self-doubt, so when you see Fei'er on the show, you will feel that she is not confident and humble in relationships. Because sunk costs are increasing, the more you pay, the less you get in return. The way to get love is to believe that you are worthy of being loved, to be clear about your own advantages, not to love others more than yourself, and not to let others decide your happiness, but to take the initiative yourself.

3. Reduce the sense of need in love.

Love is indeed charming, but it is not everything we have. Mayfair is too demanding for love, and that’s why she gets attracted to it. We must pursue more meaningful things and enrich our lives. Love can be life. When you no longer feel that love is everything in life, you will get better love.

Emotional sharing of getting back together: You must keep a clear mind in an intimate relationship, because you don’t know if the other person is a trap. You must keep a clear head to avoid it. You deserve better love and life. When you no longer regard love as the only pursuit in life, your mind will naturally open up and slowly become better. You will not be afraid of the impermanence of love, but can get better things. love.