Why are those really good people somewhat out of place compared with others?

A person who suffered a lot when he was a child will look different from his peers. This feeling is not obvious, but there is always a feeling that he can't tell.

I have a cheerful and lively childhood friend. Later, his mother died when he was 10 years old. From then on, he was unhappy. Although friends in the village invited him to play with us after school, he was still crazy with us, but we always felt that he was different. For example, I often sit alone and become speechless, sometimes my eyes will be red.

Later, his father often drank and gambled, so he had less time to take care of him. Basically, he does farm work at home. According to the old man in the village, the child is very poor.

It is this bitter child who has grown into a capable person in the village. I made a lot of money in transportation in my early years, and later I opened a chicken farm. In 2000, we had subsidies for raising chickens here, and he made another big profit. 10, the county rectified the aquaculture pollution industry, he shut down the chicken farm and started the project construction. Because he is also a prominent person in the village, he has qualifications and can always receive some projects.

Now, he is the first person to run big in the village, the first person to be a villa and the first person with assets of tens of millions. But such a capable person, people always say that he is a bit strange, and his personality is always a bit out of touch with others. Because he doesn't drink and only smokes, he doesn't attend many banquets. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to eat only vegetables or substitute tea for wine when attending a banquet with big people present. But everyone knows his skills, so they put up with his misfortune.

The truly powerful people are all people who have suffered a lot, just like this person. His pain should be said to have started when his mother began to die. A teenager lost his mother, and such great pain is beyond ordinary people's understanding.

Only he knows the hardships. Without the warmth of maternal love, who can feel pain and sadness? Other children go home, mother cooks, washes her face and feet, and tells stories at night. He didn't.

A person who has suffered a lot begins with silence in behavior, because he begins to think about the world.

Why did he sometimes keep silent when he mentioned childhood? Because he has felt the lack of maternal love, and he is different from other children. The road ahead will be hard, even harder, and he began to think about the future.

At this time, he has begun to become more mature than his peers, and his heart has begun to pack a lot of things. Later, my father's fall was also related to this matter. How sad it is for a husband to lose his wife. Because he is in the countryside and his knowledge level is not enough, his father can't alleviate the pain in his heart.

Some people in the village gossiped, so my father drowned his sorrows in wine and got into the bad habit of gambling. This is even worse for young children.

Solitude is a sign that a person really begins to mature, because he is facing his own heart.

When he was a teenager, he didn't like communicating with others very much. He always works alone in silence and seldom talks to us. Even if we did, everyone greeted him politely, but there was really nothing else to say.

In fact, at that time, he was also thinking about his future. Unlike other young people in the village, some went to the south to work, some learned crafts, and some inherited their parents' business, but he didn't. He just saw that few people in the village were engaged in transportation at that time, and many people needed cars. So he borrowed 20,000 yuan and bought an agricultural vehicle.

In fact, he is right. His agricultural vehicles are basically never idle. Whoever wants to buy furniture and electrical appliances in the city and sell agricultural products to the city is given by his car, which basically earns several hundred yuan every day. The debt was paid off in less than a year.

Suffering is the best teacher in life. It makes people strong inside, and of course, their personality is quite distinct.

After earning money, he began to engage in farming, because the demand for eggs in the county was always in short supply, and a chicken was subsidized by 5 yuan. He raised 5000 chickens, so the subsidy alone was 25 thousand, which was not a small sum at that time, because the monthly salary of employees who just joined the work was only a few hundred yuan.

Why does he always aim at opportunities and be good at capturing the information of getting rich? This has something to do with his liking for independent thinking since childhood. His family has declined. He must consider the future of himself and his family, so he has formed the habit of thinking. Over time, he can find business opportunities from subtle changes.

After breeding was not allowed, he took a good look at the project construction, which is undoubtedly the right way out. Now he is the big boss in the village. However, such a big boss, anyone who doesn't drink, and people who don't know him think he is playing big cards. In fact, only our friends who climbed together know the reason. He is allergic to alcohol and can fall asleep with a sip. Therefore, even if a village cadre is at a banquet, he will not drink, for fear of making a fool of himself, making jokes and showing them to others.

Suffering can really sharpen people, but it can also knock them down. The key is to see if you have a strong will and a wise mind. Many people were knocked down by suffering, but many people stood up from suffering.

In the future, when you have a really powerful person around you, but always feel that his personality is a bit out of place with us, please understand and tolerate him, because he is a person who has come out of suffering.