Why does Xu Banxia insist on notarizing pre-marital property?

Xu Banxia is getting married to Zhao Lei.

In Xu Banxia's life, Zhao Lei can always help her solve problems. This man's structure and thinking are indeed better than Xu Banxia's.

But Xu Banxia has a better understanding of human nature than Zhao Lei, because she has seen too many ugly sides of human nature since she was a child.

Before getting married, Xu Banxia asked Zhao Lei to agree to do a pre-marital property notarization.

In Zhao Lei's view, Xu Banxia's doing this hurt his self-esteem a bit.

Whether Xu Banxia was worried about Zhao Lei sharing debts with her in the future, or worried about Zhao Lei coveting her property, Zhao Lei couldn't accept it.

He feels that when two people get married, they must bear all the risks together.

But Xu Banxia said with a smile: "I'm afraid that my ambition will implicate you."

Zhao Lei replied: "If that's the case, then it doesn't matter whether we get married or not." What’s the difference?”

Xu Banxia said: “The difference is that if I didn’t meet you, I would never get married again in this life.”

In Xu Banxia’s view, the money belongs to her. The debt is also hers, and she doesn't want any financial factors to be involved in the relationship between herself and Zhao Lei.

This is what Xu Banxia said in reply to Zhao Lei.

Especially, before the merger of the two steel plants, she even had a lawsuit to fight, and she couldn't tell what would happen in the future.

So, she didn’t want to implicate Zhao Lei.

This is also the answer we see on the surface.

But is Xu Banxia’s insistence on notarization of pre-marital property just for Zhao Lei’s consideration?

Not so.

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First of all, there are indeed many uncertain factors in Xu Banxia’s business.

Notarization of property before marriage is indeed beneficial to Zhao Lei, so that Zhao Lei will not be implicated in case Xu Banxia's property shrinks or becomes insolvent in the future.

This is Xu Banxia’s consistent style of doing things.

Secondly, Xu Banxia did not want any financial factors to be involved in his relationship with Zhao Lei, so he was prepared for a rainy day.

If her relationship with Zhao Lei changes in the future, the company will not be implicated due to property division.

Moreover, love without financial factors is more pure.

Xu Banxia has seen the marriage of Feng Yu and Mrs. Feng. There is no love between them, they are just brought together because of their interests.

When Mrs. Feng and Feng Yu divorced, Mrs. Feng gave up her family's factory.

Xu Banxia has seen the tragedy of Feng Yu and Mrs. Feng’s marriage, and she doesn’t want her own marriage to be like this.

Thirdly, Xu Banxia lacks a sense of security in relationships.

Xu Banxia, ??who lacks love, gains little emotionally and loses a lot, so she has no sense of security in her relationship.

After so many years, she rarely talks about her feelings with others, and does not allow herself to have feelings. In her opinion, making money is more important.

In fact, making money is just a shield for her fear of love.

Since she was a child, she has had too many emotional shortcomings. Because she is afraid of losing, she is afraid of relationships.

She and her father could fall out over money.

My father and stepmother could nod and bow to please her when she was rich; Not treating her as a real family member.

After all these years, the relationship between Xu Banxia and his father is still there. One very important reason is that Xu Banxia bought it with money.

Even the relationship between a father and a daughter who are related by blood can be bought with money. What other relationship can be trusted?

Furthermore, Xu Banxia had seen the love between Feng Yu and Xie Jinbao all the way. They stayed together all day long and kept calling. In the eyes of outsiders, there is love between them.

Even Feng Yu said everywhere that he loved Xie Jinbao.

Xie Jinbao even kept saying that he loved Feng Yu.

Therefore, Feng Yu divorced and married Xie Jinbao, and they were about to start a life like a couple of gods. In the end, they got divorced after a month of marriage, and their love became a joke.

Xu Banxia was a bystander in this process.

This incident also impacted Xu Banxia’s view on love.

In addition to other people's experiences, Xu Banxia's marriage failed and her ex-husband Wang Quan had an affair, which impacted her view of marriage.

She was originally a very pessimistic person in terms of emotions. These things allowed her to see human nature and that it could not stand the test.

So, she asked for notarization of her property before marriage not only to protect Zhao Lei, but also to protect herself.

Fourth, Xu Banxia considers future development.

The difference between Xu Banxia and Zhao Lei is that Xu Banxia is more courageous, courageous, and more adventurous than Zhao Lei.

These are the indispensable characteristics of entrepreneurs.

Xu Banxia also relied on the drive in his bones to reach the present and became the boss of a large steel factory.

Zhao Lei is a prudent person. When Xu Banxia and Wu Jianshe competed for the No. 2 Steel in the Province, Zhao Lei disagreed. He deliberately gave the No. 2 Steel in the Province to Wu without Xu Banxia’s consent. Construction left Xu Banxia with regrets.

In fact, in Xu Banxia’s view, she and Zhao Lei are both strong people. When there will always be differences of opinion in the future, in order to let themselves take the initiative in the steel plant, they have to do property notarization in advance, which also shows that Now that she is in a dominant position in future development, she can make her own choices.

If the two people's finances are not tied too tightly, it will not be easy to hold her back.

If the relationship really breaks down, it will be easier to get together and part ways without property relations.

Written at the end:

Xu Banxia has been working hard since she was a child. She has seen the ugly side of Qiu Bizheng, Guo Qidong and Wu Jianshe, and she has also seen the unbearable side of Feng Yu and Guo Jinbao.

She has experienced even the ugliness and unbearability between relatives. If it weren't for Zhao Lei's excellence and sincerity, Xu Banxia might have found it difficult to get married again.

In order to protect their marriage, she made a lot of preparations in advance and said ugly things in front of them, also to make their future relationship decent.