The Passage of Soul: Reading Children's Universe

? Ji Bolun once said, "Your children are actually not your children, they are children born of life's desire for themselves. They came to this world through you, but not because of you. They are by your side, but they don't belong to you. What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. What you can protect is their bodies, not their souls, because their souls belong to tomorrow. . . . . . "

? When adults see a long-lost child, they always like to say, "This child has grown so fast that he is getting more and more handsome. He is in primary school. " In fact, in children's consciousness, it has long been a common thing for them. They have begun to feel that adults are bored and don't understand their inner world.

Children are God's best gift to us. In the process of exploring their small universe, we can find our childhood again after losing it, and let the locked door approach the forgotten, naive and profound soul step by step.

? "Mr. Star/one has come out/my father/will come back soon." This is a poem written by two-year-old Yuan Hongbao, which describes the relationship between Hong and his father and Hong's space. For macro, dad is a shining star in the sky, but for dad, I'm afraid macro is also a star of hope. Two stars echoed in the universe. Home is the window for children to understand the universe. Not every child is lucky. However, there are more and more annoying children in modern families. Recently, the hot adoption information on the Internet: "Dear future in-laws, my daughter/son has a house and a car (18 or above) and insurance, and can go anywhere during the New Year. Wedding arrangements, no gifts, no worries about work. The only condition, please pick it up now, homework guidance, whose daughter-in-law/son-in-law adopts it. " It seems like a cold joke, but it reflects the helplessness of many parents. A wonderful childhood, immersed in the ocean of problems every day, have you asked your children? Do they really want to? Are they really too naughty? On sunny weekends, many children are deprived of time to enjoy nature.

? In Claudius's Secret, the reason for leaving Claudius is just to find a different self. Her parents are unfair to her. For the sake of her three younger brothers, her parents made her take on all the housework in the family, although she was excellent in character and learning. But she was never satisfied. She is outstanding among girls of her age. Maybe, she is tired of this life. Every child has a secret in his heart. Maybe only a secret like that can give them comfort and safety. This reminds me of my childhood. There was a time when I was tired of my life. One day, I burned all my awards. That's not the life I want. No one understood me, and I kept the secret deep.

Children's love for animals. At a symposium, the author asked the children what they were happy about. The children replied in unison, "When I am with animals". The complexity and badness of modern interpersonal relationships make more people like animals. Getting close to animals, plants and scenery seems to be a more reliable method. The silent teacher K in the class began to speak because of the loss of the tortoise. There is always a spiritual communication between K Jun and the turtle adopted in the class. It is this power that deeply touched K Jun and made him a normal child.

? Impatience is the most unacceptable thing when adults want to know the "passage" to children's souls. As long as you guard the child with warm eyes, the channel will open from the soul. The opening of children's space-time channel may lead to the appearance of animals, perhaps because of a certain person, perhaps because of a thing, a secret. In the story of K Jun and the tortoise, the appearance of the tortoise played a prominent "channel" role. Anxious people and flustered people cannot see this passage. The tortoise played the role of "channel". The love that all the students poured into the tortoise was passed on to the silent K, and then the tortoise disappeared. It is worth lamenting that this is the opportunity for K Jun to speak. Animals have no such thing as clocks. Maybe they are extremely sensitive to another "opportunity". After years of silence, I met my first mentor in my life. After that conversation, I found my purpose and meaning in life. I am lucky to come out of the lowest valley of my life. In life, there are still some children who miss their mentor and can't wait to open their spiritual "channel".

The universe of children is actually the universe of adults. There may be too many secrets behind those ordinary things, and we need to wait quietly for the opportunity until someone can open that door and find the link of the soul through which "channel" to explore the unfathomable soul universe.