Emotional issues. I'm really stupid. I really don't know. I have more than 10 blind dates. When we first meet, we can meet for the second time, but usually not for the third time.

Judging from the answers and discussions of netizens as well as your follow-up questions, your problem lies in the sense of proportion.

I don’t know your specific on-the-spot performance. In fact, I saw the situation you described, and I will give you a few examples of failures:

1. She and he were introduced by classmates, and it was their first time. The classmate was the matchmaker during the meeting, and she had a good chat with him. The classmate was very attracted to them when he saw them, so he didn't show up for the second date. Then, the two of them stopped talking. I didn’t see him for a third time after that.

2. She and he met at a blind date conference. At first, the two of them had quite a few words to say, but later the man realized that he was always talking, and the woman was always listening, and never talked about her own affairs. The man felt that he could not always sing a one-man show, so he gradually talked less and listened to the woman. However, the woman found that the man talked less and thought that the man did not like her, so she did not say more. The man thought that he had talked too much and the two of them were not interested in each other, so they left angrily.

3. The woman is very introverted. She met the man at a group banquet, and they were sitting next to each other. During the dinner, the man took good care of the woman. At the same time, he hinted that he liked the woman, and the woman also had a good impression of him. Because they were in the same company department, the woman was afraid that others would make fun of her if they found out, so she tried her best to avoid this man in her subsequent work and life. The man was embarrassed, so the two stopped talking.

4. Because women are not good-looking enough, they have low self-esteem and are unwilling to deal with the opposite sex. As a result, her parents were worried about her life-long affairs, so they tried to find a boyfriend for her. In order to take care of their daughter's self-esteem, the parents chose a relatively average-looking man to meet her. But because women have been beaten many times, they can't hold their heads high when they see the opposite sex, so they say more clever things to make men choose others. At first the man comforted her, but later he thought the woman looked down on her and left.

5. The woman has never had any experience in love. As she is getting older, she found a man from the same city with an easy-going personality and a suitable age to be friends with her online. At first, the woman and the man chatted happily online, and after a while they agreed to meet in person. However, the man found that the woman who was always easy-going when chatting online was overly traditional, serious, and talkative in real life - even when the man approached her, the woman would look as if he had offended her. As a result, the man felt that the woman was unattainable, and the two stopped contacting her.

You said you don’t want to talk more. Is this the case above? Questions are welcome.