What was the most devastating moment in love for you?

As the relationship lasts longer, more and more problems will arise. Then we find that the more we love someone, the greater the chance of conflict with that person. Emotions collapse, quarrels come out of nowhere, and the impatience and contradictions hidden behind them are about to break out. Sometimes no one knows whether they did something wrong or something, and they don’t want to take the initiative to solve the problem. Therefore, the collapse in love occurs instantly.

1. Feeling that everything the other party does is for granted

The moments of collapse in love, the four most crushing moments in love Xiao Chen is very fond of his girlfriend Xiao Nan Good, the kind that spoils you to the depths of your heart.

We have been together for more than a year, but the two of them are so sticky that everyone would envy them. Gifts on holidays are of course easy to give, and Xiao Chen will continue to try his best to give them gifts. Xiao Nan was unexpectedly surprised. Whether it was ninety-nine roses, or the clothes and shoes that Xiao Nan had loved for a long time, he would definitely try his best to fulfill her wish.

Once, the two of them went out together. Xiao Nan’s newly bought shoes were a bit scratchy on her feet. Xiao Chen didn’t say anything and carried her for ten kilometers. After returning home, Xiao Nan’s feet were fine. Yes, Xiao Chen's heel was polished with two big blood pockets. Originally, Xiao Chen thought that as long as he devoted himself seriously, Xiao Nan would be able to experience his sincerity. But what he didn't expect was that she became more and more like a spoiled child. Not only did she turn a deaf ear to his devotion, but she also Feeling it from the inside is what he needs to do.

When the performance appraisal was not good and she couldn't buy too precious gifts, Xiao Nan scolded him bitterly for being petty and said that he didn't love her as much as he used to, which made Xiao Chen feel helpless and mentally and physically. exhausted.

When the relationship first develops, we are easily touched by the seriousness of the other party. But as time goes by, we always feel that the other party needs everything no matter what we do.

In fact, no one is born to love you. If some people love you without asking for anything in return, please cherish what you have. If you blatantly ask for and spend money, no matter how good the relationship is, it will collapse.

2. Endless quarrels

The collapse of the relationship. Although quarrels in love are undoubtedly a way of communication, endless quarrels will not only damage the relationship, but also damage the relationship. It can make people feel physically and mentally exhausted.

Furthermore, some feelings will fall apart if they are noisy; some people’s hearts will become cold if they are noisy.

In many cases, the reason for the quarrel between the two people is not because of any major issues or issues of principle, but because of all kinds of trivial matters. Just because neither one is willing to give in, they start ended the endless quarrel:

"Why didn't you implement the plan earlier? Is it okay now?"

"Don't throw the waste outside, why don't you even do this trivial matter?" Not doing well?"

"Don't smoke in the house, why don't you listen?"

I don't know when the tenderness gradually faded away, leaving only Endless complaining and teasing, the time the two spend together will no longer be a guarantee of a warmer relationship. Instead, it will be an arena where they unscrupulously vent their anger and dissatisfaction. They will bicker and argue until they see the other party covered in bruises and bruises. Throw away your armor.

Such a relationship does not need external destruction at all. It is very likely that it will break apart automatically during the renovation period.

3. If you do things without communication, you can only be cold and violent.

Never be cold and violent to people who treat you well, because no one knows what that hot heart has experienced. Several times of hot and cold training.

Every time there was cold violence, it was the time when Xiaoman was the saddest. She recalled every bit of the two of them together over and over again, and the more she thought about it, the more heartbroken and sad she became. On the other hand, it seems that he doesn't care about anything. When he should eat and drink, he would find friends to have sex and drink wine every now and then, as if Xiaoman was just an insignificant existence in his life. What is the reason for the moment of emotional collapse? Is it because of a change of heart or because of indifference? Sometimes, Xiaoman hopes that he can have a chat with her. Even if it is a quarrel, it is better than such heartbreaking indifference. It is a kind of ravage and destruction that eats people without spitting out their bones, making people feel their own sadness and sadness. Care is like a solid mockery.

Cold violence is like using a blunt knife, constantly letting people carve each other's hearts. Although it does not kill each other's hearts, it is always unbearable. It will not only make the two people's Emotions can easily go to the end of the road, which will make people collapse and suffocate.

4. The ambiguous relationship continues in front of you

When the relationship collapses, there is a good friend who will complain to the people around him that he is not aware of his mistakes almost every time he goes out to get together. Change:

***’s girlfriend who had been with me for three months suddenly fell in love with someone else;

The girl who had been together for more than half a year didn’t even have a chance to defend herself. Leaving everything;

Even a girlfriend who had been with me for a year suddenly changed her mind on the eve of agreeing to meet her parents;

Good friends looked sad He asked: Can it be said that I was born to be single?

I don’t know whether he is single after all. I only know that in his mobile phone, not only does he still have the communication information of his ex-girlfriend and ex-ex-girlfriend, but there are also many photos taken when they were together. . He pretends that he wants to leave a souvenir, but he challenges the moral bottom line of his working girlfriend again and again.

In the past, it was all about borrowing money and personalization, but now it has progressed to dating and movies. Sometimes I even help this one move to another house and send that one to the hospital. When my girlfriend asks about it, she is always pitiful. He said that he was just kind-hearted and helpful, and could not see how others were distressed. He also righteously "educated" his new girlfriend, "You don't want your boyfriend to be a cold-blooded person, right?"

One sentence choked the other party to the point where he couldn't say a word.

Seeing her boyfriend running around one ex-boyfriend after another in the name of helping others, she may have broken down a thousand times.

What you think is an unexpected separation, in fact, she has considered it many, many times.

What should I do if the breakdown in love makes people very upset? There are actually quite a lot of things that break people down in love, but these can also be solved by two people communicating with each other. The way to get along in love cannot be learned in a day or two. It takes time and two people to get along with each other. can be derived.