The importance of interpersonal communication

No matter in society, family or workplace, mastering an effective communication skill can make us more attractive, make us comfortable in interpersonal communication, deter others, and at the same time, effective communication can enhance feelings and influence. If you master the art of communication, you master the social circle in your life.

So how to master this art?

First of all, social experience is very important. You should experience more people, observe their way of speaking, take the essence and discard the dross, apply what you have learned, practice the communication skills you have learned deliberately when communicating with others, write down the information the speaker gave you back, compare all the feedback results together, find problems, sum up experience and apply what you have learned.

Second: learn from the experts around you, ask the communication experts around you, listen to their way of speaking, see what is different from their own way of speaking, what are their advantages, and how to apply his methods to your way of communication. Learning from experts can improve our skills faster and let us take fewer detours. There is no shortcut to success, but taking fewer detours can help us achieve our goals faster.

Third: learn to listen, learn to listen, learn to listen, and say important things three times. Listen to other people's language, understand the meaning of other people's words, pay attention to other people's feelings, consider the listener's feelings when speaking, pay attention to observation, stop changing the subject in time when you see others feel uncomfortable or uninterested, and don't just keep talking. Communication is between two people. If one party talks blindly without considering the feelings of the other party, then this kind of communication is bound to be invalid.

In love, effective communication can enhance the feelings between partners. Most quarrels between partners are caused by trivial matters. Boys are more rational and girls are more emotional. Girls need comfort, but they don't say anything, just fooling around, while boys just solve problems rationally and keep asking girls what the problem is. Never consider the feelings of girls at the moment, so that both sides will not change and will not solve the problem at all. And if they learn to listen and feel other people's feelings, girls say their feelings, boys feel girls' feelings and make corresponding changes, then the problem will be solved. So if you master the art of communication, you will master the temperature of love.

Human society exists because of communication, and people are linked together because of communication. Without communication, society will cease to exist, and without communication, the meaning of our life will cease to exist. Even in primitive society, people communicate with body language, animals communicate with each other, and plants transmit information through pollen. Communication is everywhere. Communication is the instinct of everything in the world.