An Interpretation of Augmented Immortals (283)

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Money is hard to buy children and grandchildren, and daughters don't invite guests.

when a man marries, a woman marries, and if she doesn't marry, it makes a joke.

modesty is a virtue. Being too modest means cheating.

That means:

Money at home is hard to buy future generations with both ability and political integrity. Girls should not be too polite to people who come to visit.

Boys should get married when they grow up, and girls should get married when they grow up; Boys don't get married when they get married, and girls don't get married when they get married, so they will be teased by their neighbors.

Being modest is a virtue, but being too modest is deceiving others.

why do you say that?

because a person's talent is excellent in ideology and morality and good in talent, which is not bought with money, but can be possessed by his own cultivation and hard work. So even if your family is rich, your children and grandchildren will not cultivate their own moral character and study hard for cultural knowledge. Money can't buy the talents of future generations.

A daughter doesn't invite guests, which literally means that there is a daughter at home, so don't let her entertain guests at home. This doesn't make sense. Does this explanation make your daughter rude? Or is this doorman not a good person, so I don't want my daughter to invite him. Therefore, first of all, we must understand the meaning of "visiting guests" in order to understand why our daughter doesn't invite them. Inquire about the relevant information, and explain the meaning of visiting guests:

The phrase "if you have a reason not to visit guests" means that even if you are in charge, the other party should treat you with courtesy and not be rude. Source: "twelfth lunar month? The first month: "Wang Caijian believes that Han Xuanzi will not refuse him when he treats guests. Since ancient times, he has been' reasonable not to hit the public', not to mention the neighbors in the same village!"

"Be polite, don't hit the doorman" means to be polite to the door-to-door guests, not rude. Door visitor: a guest who visits the door. Source: "After a Dream of Red Mansions" two or three times: "Good sister, let's not make trouble, be polite and don't hit the public. Let's ask for a herbal tea. "

"The Last Shot Prisoner of War": "As the saying goes,' A hero doesn't fight with his public guests." Mr. Kim's willingness to come to our house is to respect us. Mom wants you to treat him like a friend and a comrade-in-arms. "

Obviously, a door-to-door visitor refers to a guest who comes to your door on his own initiative. It is estimated that he is not a friendly person, and he has a daughter at home. If he comes out to receive you on his own initiative, he may be discovered by an unfriendly person and may take your daughter as a hostage to blackmail you. In this case, her daughter's polite hospitality has brought her disaster. Therefore, when I met an uninvited guest, I told my daughter not to come out for reception. Just don't invite guests into the house. This is for the safety of my daughter. I guess the meaning of this sage article may be like this. Otherwise, wouldn't it be rude not to invite guests when they come?

it's easy to understand that men should marry when they are older and women should marry when they are older. This is a life course that people have to go through. If they reach the age of remarriage and don't get married, it only means that there is something wrong with this man and woman. I just can't live like a normal person. Others will have questions, and they will talk about it. Of course, today's society is very inclusive, and everyone has the right to choose their own life freedom, so it is not good to make fun of others. But I have chosen a different life from others, and it is still appropriate to be discussed and smiled. Don't be too uncomfortable.

the third sentence, modesty, means that you are very powerful, but you don't boast or show off, so as not to bring pressure to others. But it's another fact that you are better than others. You have to respect the facts if you are modest. Blindly modest, to the extent of denying one's own advantages, it is not modesty, but hypocrisy and cunning that goes against the facts. It's the opposite of modesty. Therefore, it is said that "modesty is a virtue, and being too modest means cheating."

thank you for your encouragement.