Most tough guys are taciturn. What is the reason?

Most truly powerful people are taciturn. Silence doesn't mean they don't understand, and silence doesn't mean they don't argue. They just don't gamble on meaningless things, and they don't fight for people who are not worth it. ?

In this world, whether it is sharp in words or excuses in words, it is often futile.

Even if you encounter something, blindly explaining it will only be redundant. After all, people who know you don't need to explain, and people who don't know you don't need to explain.

Around us, we see that those who always complain or strive for victory in words often have bad lives.

This is because complaining has no meaning except to find a salvation for one's incompetence; Although verbal competition maintains one's cheap self-esteem, it also hurts the friendship between friends.

Really powerful people never use words to prove anything, and they don't need to prove anything with words, because their achievements and actions are their best proof.

Excellence never needs to be proved

Read such a story:

In a company, there is a need to find a project leader for a project, and two people in the company are most likely to run for the position of the leader.

After getting the news that a person in charge has a vacancy, one of them is always showing off his Excellence, always showing off how much work he has done for the company and how much achievements he has made in front of others. However, in the end, the position of the person in charge fell to another person who said nothing.

People who didn't get the position at that time were very unhappy. They thought there was something in it, so they went to the company leadership theory.

However, just after the leader produced the achievements of two people last year, he could only shut up, because no matter how many rhetoric he used, he became pale and powerless in the face of actual results.

Real tough guys never waste some energy on showing off, because they understand that what makes them stand out is not the Excellence in words, but the Excellence in action.

No matter in life or at work, you should know that Excellence never needs to be proved. As the saying goes: everyone knows each other, and no one knows who! ?

Many times, blindly flaunting yourself with words will not only give you a greater advantage, but will make people feel that this person is unstable and exaggerated.

You never need to show off your grades.

A while ago, a colleague made a major breakthrough in business and created great benefits for the company.

However, he has always been very low-key about his achievements and never mentioned it to everyone.

I once asked him why he was so calm about his great achievements and never met him in person. He just said:? Can't they see if I don't tell them? ?

After hearing what he said, I suddenly realized that his greatest confidence is not to show off.

In life, there is a classic theory about human nature, that is, the more a person lacks, the more he wants to show off.

People who are short of money, buy a famous brand, do a maintenance, or even eat a decent meal, must send a circle of friends to show off; People who have no ability, as long as they make some achievements, will be complacent and let everyone know?

However, those who are really powerful, they never show off. Of course, even if they don't show off, no one dares to look down on them.

Because their achievements are known to people, because their achievements and their abilities are recognized by people.

Silence is a kind of wisdom

I read such a question in Zhihu. Why can the more silent people achieve great success?

In highly praised comments, an anonymous netizen said this:

Arguing with others will not only waste people's energy, but also affect their mood because of the argument. Distraction makes it hard to concentrate on work. On the other hand, people who don't argue unnecessarily can concentrate on their work and finally get the life they want and achieve themselves. ?

That's what happened.

Being taciturn doesn't mean that you are incompetent or resigned, but that you know how to measure and won't be knowledgeable with some people.

People who can be taciturn are all people with great wisdom.

Because they know what kind of life they need, it is not worth wasting their time on all the unimportant things they encounter on the way to such a life.

I advise you to be a taciturn person, not because I want you to be weak, but because you don't have to delay your youth for unworthy things and affect your mood because of unworthy people.

The rest of my life is long, and smart people know how to live their own lives. As for the rest, it's not very important.