What should I do if I am always belittled by others because of my poor family conditions?

First of all, don't feel inferior. If you are always timid, you are not confident in doing anything, and you are timid and influence others, then even if your family is rich, you will be belittled by others. If you are confident enough and shine enough, you can always make others shine and help others. I believe it's too late for others to approach you.

I come from a poor rural family, and I am deeply touched by this.

It's just that I have never regarded my family situation as a weakness. Even if you can't buy good clothes at ordinary times, you will laugh at yourself or think that your clothes will not be uglier than others.

Fear of being belittled by others, or always feel that others are belittling themselves, is actually a deep inferiority complex. We can't change our family environment at once, but we must believe that it is only temporary and won't last forever.

At this stage, what we can do is to move forward vigorously and change our image and environmental impact with actions.

On the other hand, in this world, no one is perfect, no one is absolutely excellent and confident, and no one is absolutely poor and always poor.

Let me tell you something about my experience.

My voice is congenitally deficient, and for geographical reasons, southerners, by accident, are Hu Jianren. As a friend described, when I speak, it's like singing. When I sing, it's like talking.

So much so that I attended a public expression class and felt extremely inferior. Every day's homework is not seen by the tutor.

Some time ago, I wrote this sad mood and got encouragement and comfort from many friends.

This gives me great courage and motivation. I began to try to study those excellent homework, analyze the content, ponder the comments of various tutors, and guess the standard dimensions of their evaluation of excellent homework.

I began to try to suit the remedy to the case, starting with careful preparation of the content, and then distributing it according to the different focuses of the content theme. For example, emotional content is mainly distributed to more emotional female tutors, more rational content is distributed to more serious male tutors, and content that pays attention to warmth and parenting is distributed to tutors who are already parents.

As a result, the homework has been enriched by 5 stars for several days in a row.

You see, if you want to get excellent homework, you don't need my beautiful voice and Mandarin. As long as I work harder, I can finish it easily.

Those shortcomings that make me feel extremely inferior have become characteristics.

So, don't care about other people's eyes, put these energies into building yourself and let yourself shine. When you are bright enough, even if someone stares at you with strange eyes, you can blind their eyes with your light!

Don't compare with others, try to compare with yourself, make progress every day, be down-to-earth, and be better than yourself in the past, so that every day is full of progress and passion, even if it is a big storm, you can have your own sun!

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