No house, no car, no poverty, being looked down upon.

When a person is poor, he will be looked down upon by others, even the closest people. In recent years, when I went back to my hometown for the Spring Festival, when I was eating and drinking, my relatives all toasted the richest relatives on the wine table, while those lonely people hid in the corner and ate their food silently, and no one paid attention to him.

Therefore, when a person is lonely and poor, no one wants to talk to you. You should be sensible, stay in an empty corner, and don't disturb others, otherwise it will cause others' unhappiness and cause conflicts.

There are too many snobs in this society. You have no capital to help others. People don't want to associate with you, you have to understand the truth. When many people began to appreciate the scenery, it was because they were rich at that time, and others could benefit from interacting with them. Now they are poor and have no capital to help others, and may even become a burden to others. Therefore, people will ignore you and stay away from you when they meet you. Human feelings are so cruel. People will despise you even more if you don't understand.

So, what should a person do when he is down and out? Things in the world can't be killed with a single blow. There will always be opportunities and hopes, but there must be enough objective conditions to change your situation. At that time, when you are down and out, as long as you do the following three things, it is possible for the salted fish to turn over and your life will have a good change. So what are these three points?

First, when people are poor, don't complain to anyone, but work hard silently.

When you are poor, you don't have so many resources around you to mobilize, and no one will have intimate relations with you. When you are alone in the start-up stage, you want to talk to someone, but no one will listen to your complaints. They will interrupt you impatiently or suddenly walk away from you. This is because they have a lot of troubles themselves, so they have no time to listen to your troubles.

In fact, they are not interested in listening, because you are not an important person in their minds, they will not care about your life and death, even if you are poor enough to starve to death, they will not pity you. When people are poor, people around them are hard-hearted, while when you are rich, people around you are greeted with smiles. This is human nature.

There is another kind of person who is more vicious. They will pretend to be your audience and listen to your complaints. When you think they are true friends, they don't know that they will tell others behind their backs and enjoy it. This kind of person is the most insidious. They will read your jokes and treat you like a fool. Although there are not many such people, they are very insidious and vicious. They will attack you when you are most miserable and helpless.

So when people are poor, don't complain to anyone. You must endure pain and loneliness, silently swallow all grievances, expand your own pattern, continue to work hard, and do a good job bit by bit. When your career gets better, your life will really get better.

Second, when people are poor, don't expect anyone, you can only turn around on your own.

When a person is poor, no one wants to talk to you, because everyone knows that helping you means losing yourself, so they all avoid you one by one. It's good for others to help you, otherwise who will obviously suffer and help a down-and-out person?

Those rich people are always willing to deal with rich people, and the poor and the poor are together. Few rich people can play with the poor, because these two kinds of people have different interests and horizons, so it is difficult to talk together. When a person is poor, he doesn't think the world will lose stuffing cakes. It is impossible to expect rich people to help you. In fact, the story of Cinderella marrying the prince is just a fairy tale, and it is an anesthetic to comfort people.

If a person wants to change his own destiny, he can't pin his hopes on others, but depends on his own hands and efforts. This is the most practical method. Everyone has an infinite treasure, and that is your brain, which is the open source of your wisdom. As long as you use your head and your hands, there will be no insurmountable obstacles. When you persistently rely on your own efforts and achieve great success, your understanding of life will be different. So you can be so awesome.

Third, when people are poor, don't give up on themselves, but stick to it.

When people are poor for a long time, it is easy to give up on themselves. This is because they lost hope, lost themselves and were swallowed up by suffering. This period is very dangerous, because if a person loses self-confidence, he will basically fail, so give yourself confidence and hope over and over again, and learn to give yourself chicken blood, otherwise, you will really fail completely.

You have to find a career that suits you. When you are engaged in your favorite job, you get pleasure from it, although it has not been successful for the time being. This is the biggest reward, because you get happiness. Many people are discouraged because they haven't found their favorite job. They can't get any pleasure from their work, and their life is boring. Such people are easily crushed by life.

When you find something that suits you, stick to it, and you will get endless fun and motivation from your work, even though you are not rich yet.