In the process of educating children, besides "chicken babies", do parents have any other choices?

In the process of educating children, in addition to crazy training classes for their children, parents have other choices, that is, parents must work hard to increase their own self-value. There are many parents who put too much effort into their children. They are indeed good parents, but they seem to be using it in the wrong direction. After all, children are still young. Although they should lay some foundations when they are young, going too far will only make the children more and more stressed. The incidence of depression is relatively high among teenagers. This is a problem that parents cannot ignore. They should study happily instead of studying for the sake of studying. So what exactly is the beginning and end of the incident? Let’s find out in detail!

1. Crazy parents

Many parents had some regrets when they were young. After giving birth to a baby, they focused all their attention on the child. If you can't accomplish it yourself, why should you impose it on others, let alone the children you have raised and grown up? Some children have no talent in reading, and their parents want their children to learn all kinds of knowledge. Some parents are crazy and enroll their children in more than a dozen training classes. Children don’t even have enough time to sleep. Some children have poor physical fitness. Once they don’t eat well and sleep well, they will become thinner. If you can’t take care of your health, let alone study.

Second, do parents have any other choices?

Parents have other choices. There are two main aspects. The first is to work hard to improve themselves and educate their children appropriately. The second is to pay more attention to the mental health of their children. Many parents use self-motivated methods to educate their children. For example, when the children rest in the winter, they forcefully pull the children out of bed and ask them to read and read. Thinking that this is the best way for children is just a joke. After graduation, most people will become ordinary people and will not become the proud ones of heaven. This is the norm. As parents, you need to keep a calm mind. Parents bring their children into this world, and the children do not completely belong to their parents. They belong to themselves.

In short, children are like free birds. When they grow up, they want to fly freely in the sky. Even if parents are a chicken for a while, they cannot be a chicken for a lifetime. Parents should not interfere too much. Working hard is the real thing.