Do you agree that men are not good at anything?

Women always complain that there are no good men. You are wrong. Good men only learn to become bad after being hurt by women! You always complain that your men have too few advantages and cannot satisfy you! You are wrong. There are no perfect people. As long as he has a sense of responsibility and a heart that loves you and cares about you, that's enough! Handsome + humorous + rich + sincere + romantic, this is the perfect lover in your heart. Think about it for yourself, if there really is such a person, will he fall in love with you? You blame men for being hot-tempered and incapable of allowing you to live in a high-level society. Think about what you have done for men? comfort? trouble? Or should I say sorry and say we are inappropriate, and then turn around and leave? You always feel that a man should love you and care about you. You can freely express your dissatisfaction and say hurtful words. Do you understand what love is? Could it be that emotional oppression really makes you feel comfortable? Don't wait for the man who loves you to leave and cry that you were wrong. It was really too late to regret it then. When you fall out of love, you will complain to your good friends, then cry a lot, and then you can talk about love again! But what about men? Who could he talk to? He can only smoke a cigarette and cry silently in a corner where no one is around, recalling the scene when he was in love under the sunset. Perhaps in the moment of recollection, he can feel the meaning of love! But in the world of true love, all he has left are memories! Men will keep whatever oath they promise until they have been harmed. But after a man really falls in love and is deeply hurt, then you should not expect the man to make safe promises about love. Even if I have said it, it is still watery! Don't blame him, this is a gift from God that cannot be changed. A man's love only comes once! In fact, every boy originally wants to be a good man with dedicated feelings. In fact, every boy looks at girls based on their faces rather than their breasts. In fact, every boy cannot tell dirty jokes. In fact, every boy originally longs to love someone forever. However, no girl loves such a boy. They think such a boy is too childish, too old-fashioned and has no interest. So the boy began to change, turning into the kind of girl who likes a naughty smile, cynicism or humor. Start to learn to say sweet words instead of what you want to say in your heart, start to learn to pretend to care, learn to give small trinkets to girls to please her, learn how to pursue, how to grasp love or see through the world of mortals, play with love, and become the kind of man that women hate. They can easily capture the hearts of girls, but they will also cry in the dark night while holding a cigarette in their mouth. When there is love in my heart, there is no girl. With a girl, there is never the feeling of love. When they hear women complaining that there is no good man in the world, they will stop trying to be a good man and just pass by with a smile. A middle-aged man looks like a successful man on the outside. His social status, family status, and economic status seem to be all in place. It seems that the earth is in danger of not moving away from him, but middle-aged men seem to have the appearance and appearance of a successful man. Men have seniors and juniors at home, superiors in front of the workplace, and subordinates behind them. In society, family is on the left and career is on the right. Every day, we may face the following annoying things... Let’s count them one by one, and let’s take a look at eight Situation - Situation: 1: The wife's feelings say that the quality of marriage between middle-aged couples is the lowest. When people reach middle age, their marriages have entered a troubled period. These days, you have pressure and I have pressure. Every mortal has pressure to survive, regardless of gender. The elderly, children, work and entertainment, and a lot of troubles are waiting for you and me. She works like a donkey. After everything is settled, I just want to talk less and rest more for a while. Communication between husband and wife is naturally a problem. Over time, each other becomes indifferent and silent, and silence becomes a habit. Especially some men who are physically weak cannot meet their wives’ happiness requirements. The most terrible thing is that your wife will also suspect that you are having an affair and will track your whereabouts all day long without letting go. In this case, either your wife can't stand the indifference and simply gives you an extravagance, or a famous surgeon calls you all day long and recommends delayed injection of divine oil, leaving you exhausted and exhausted. , mentally and physically exhausted. 2: For men whose parents have entered middle age, their parents are mostly around 70 years old. Most of the elderly people nowadays suffer from diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases. If an acute attack occurs, it may be life-threatening at any time. In addition to his parents and parents-in-law, there are four elderly people in total. This means that even if each elderly person only gets sick once a year, they will be busy and frightened once a quarter on average.

Three: A man who has entered into a middle-aged relationship with children. Most of his children are middle school students. They spend the whole day doing homework, taking exams, asking tutors to make up lessons, etc. The scores are like a hook, which always hurts your heart. You are always ready to come if the scores are not enough. Minato. Children aged 17 or 18 are in the prime of their love life. One day you suddenly see your child holding hands and making out with a classmate of the opposite sex, walking down the street as if no one else is watching, and you will be furious. It's true that "the emperor is not in a hurry, but the eunuch is"! Four: The expression of your boss is a middle-aged man. Maybe the boss who appreciated you and promoted you has retired, but the new boss is younger than you. He even used to be your subordinate, but now he is leading you and he is against his subordinates. He has completely different appreciation standards from his old boss. He has a completely new work philosophy and attitude. In short, you are no longer in his admiration team. The expression when he looks at you is far less gentle and kind than that of your old boss, and you feel so confused in your heart! Five: The mood of your subordinates. Don’t think that it’s easy to be a leader these days. The performance of your work depends entirely on the performance of your subordinates. Your year-end summary, work report, and even your evaluation scores are all related to the work of your subordinates. . Now that we are building a harmonious society, don't you care about the mood of your subordinates? One day when he is unhappy, he will secretly make a paste for you at work, leaving you unable to explain to your boss, or he will simply fire you, so just keep the blood in your chest! 6: Friendly people When you are middle-aged, you don’t have many close friends in private, but when you go out to social gatherings, they all call you friends and brothers, even if the person you met just a minute ago doesn’t even know their name. Not notified. But who can live without such friendly friends? Maybe it’s your potential network of relationships in your career. As friends, of course, they need to help each other. To put it bluntly, helping in the entertainment world means trading their own connections and resources. Therefore, if you take advantage of other people's weak words and weak hands, and help them back and forth, you may lead to some corruption, fraud, corruption and bribery cases. By then, I am afraid that it will be too late for you to regret it. Seven: A lover's love. A middle-aged man is in the quality stage. He has style, money and status. Naturally, he is admired by young and vain girls. It just so happens that the first wife of the family is getting older and older, and nagging her all day long. So it is only natural to have a young, beautiful, well-behaved and cute little lover in your arms. But there is no free lunch in the world. Today your lover asks you for money to buy a car or a house. Tomorrow she says she is pregnant with your child. Finally, she issues an ultimatum to you. Either you divorce her and marry her, or she tells the world about you. You Only then did I realize that although wild flowers are more fragrant than domestic flowers, they are actually more poisonous than domestic flowers. Eight: A man whose market situation has entered middle age seems to be in his prime and at the peak of his life, but what he sees from the top must be a downhill road, and the market situation is obviously bearish. Your body is going downhill, your blood pressure is rising, you get tired easily, your sleep is not good, your sexual function is declining, your career is going downhill, your knowledge and ideas are outdated, you are no longer able to do your job, and there is no room for job advancement. Even the status of the family is going downhill. The child has his own opinions and no longer worships you. He starts to deny your opinions and needs his own way of life. At this time, you have to sigh: Hey, he is old. Really old! ! ! Just laugh it off, don't take it seriously. "Men are masculine and women are gentle" are still considered to be very typical temperaments of both sexes. Tomboy and sissy have always been used as alternative or exclusive words to describe girls who are not ladylike enough and boys who are not rough enough. . But time turned around and the world was twisted. In the program "Come on, Good Man", Shi Yang swung his thin waist and was invincible on the PK stage. Looking around, he found the "tomboy" and "sissy" in the camera and around him. "There are already quite a few, and there is a quietly increasing trend. "Neutral beauty" is no longer just a gender aesthetic in the entertainment industry, but has become a fashionable concept, and is gradually recognized as a new avant-garde trend among teenagers. Let’s take a look at a few very representative phenomena, without any intention of ridicule. 1. A man with a "sissy" personality, referred to as a "sissy man", who is shy, thoughtful, pays attention to dressing, is passionate about skin care, and likes yoga, etc. This type of man is a vase-shaped "sissy man", and today's aesthetics are diversified. , the androgynous trend became popular, people began to appreciate male lust, and liked the kind of beautiful melancholy men with a feminine temperament, so some men deliberately tended to be feminine, and the most prominent manifestation was to choose bright, delicate and feminine women with feminine temperament. With a beautiful concave and convex shape, the vase-shaped "girly man" has a healthy understanding of his own gender in his heart, and there is no alienation, and he can also play the role of a husband well.

2. There are also some "female boys" who like to have melancholy eyes, walk a little bit like a cow butt, and have a motherly light in their eyes. Although they are tall and thick, they like to do housework, have mysophobia, and have to wash the dishes more than five times before they can give up, and are a bit petty. , I like to be jealous. This kind of "girly boy", who grew up among girls, has misunderstandings about his gender, and his speech and behavior contain traces of femininity, which conflicts with people's expectations of male social roles. This kind of conflict usually causes the client to have an inferiority complex, be sensitive, fragile, and sentimental. In the face of this fragility, if his wife can give him more tolerance, understanding, and support, he will gradually build up his self-confidence, and his masculine personality will gradually become more obvious and he will become stronger. 3. She is very narcissistic. She wants to do a SPA for her skin every once in a while. She likes to be a female celebrity. According to them, this is a way to relieve stress, because many men in Japan are keen on becoming female celebrities to reduce stress. (By the way, current Japanese sociologists are also troubled and worried about the "girly boy" phenomenon.) They like to read colorful fashion magazines and know how to match clothes without any teacher. Most of these "girly boys" have very good appearance conditions. Their impressive looks have given them the expectation of female role-playing when they grow up. Compared with the powerful "girly boys" who are elegant and gentle in appearance, the "girly boys" who are both internal and external have less inferiority complex. They tend to be naturally beautiful because of their situational image. Although this type of "girly boy" is not very clear about what he should wear, what he should do, and what personality he should have as a man, in essence, they still recognize their male biological sex and social gender. This kind of "female man" In a marriage, in addition to playing the role of husband, a "girly man" is often also his wife's part-time best friend. If the wife doesn't mind his "girly" taste and can tolerate his super narcissism, the marriage will not have any big problems. problem. 4. He has habitual orchid-shaped fingers and often does his nails. He knows that he has transsexuality, but he laughs at himself by saying that he is a more profound "girly man". Women who have been in contact with this kind of sissy boy have all said that they want to chop off his orchid finger with a knife. Moreover, this kind of "sissy boy" sometimes has sexual fantasies about sexual relations with men. He also permed his eyelashes, had a thin voice, and was timid. They themselves also know that marriage is not easy to solve. Women treat him as a best friend and men treat him as a buddy. Even if they want to be gay, there is no hope. This kind of "girly man" is too "girly", but there is no way to refuse to like earrings, lipstick, skirts and other accessories with female labels. The "girly" taste has penetrated into his blood. This kind of hard-core "girly boy" does not have a very clear understanding of his own gender, so he naturally has female thinking and behavioral patterns. If this lack of clarity develops seriously, it will force them to break away from the "girly boy" mentality. category, entering the ranks of "transsexualism" and suffering from "gender cognitive disorder". Even if such "girly men" get married, they often cannot play the role of husband and father very well. As wives, they should consciously let them make friends with some sunny men who have successful careers and happy families, so as to establish their identification with the male gender. Then imitate the same. There will be very good results. If necessary, long-term pain is worse than short-term pain. Seek medical experts to directly perform surgical deformation. Regarding the issue of male neutralization, especially the lack of masculinity and neutrality, some people issued a call to "save men". More than 600 male students in a certain university raised their arms in the sky and shouted, holding a banner "I am a masculine boy" "I want to be a man" to resist the neutralization of men. So, is neutralization a fashion trend or an awakening and resistance to gender consciousness? Is neutralization a narrowing of gender differences, or a game of gender binary opposition? We need to reflect on the premise of respecting diversity.