The first woman I loved, because I was joking, was his girlfriend and asked him to do everything for her. As a result, she still doesn't like being rich and fat. Why?

The value of self determines what the other person thinks of you.

A woman who can really be happy in marriage must be a woman who can be respected in marriage.

And if you want to be respected, you must be a woman who can contribute to the family independently.

The hit TV series "Standing at Thirty" left a deep impression on Mrs. Yu. She is young and beautiful, but she married an old businessman. Although she lived a rich life after marriage, she was not as glamorous as she thought.

Without a job, she can only live on her husband's pocket money, and sometimes she will deduct it when she makes him angry. The most impressive scene was that she had to go to a second-hand shop to buy jewelry.

It seems to be integrated into the life of the upper class, but it has lost its freedom and enthusiasm for life. The beautiful scenery on the surface can't hide the sadness behind it.

Therefore, if a woman holds the idea of relying entirely on marriage to make herself superior before marriage, although she may get material satisfaction and comfort, she loses important respect.

People want to be happy all their lives, and they can't rely on material things.

True happiness may be that two people work together to make the family work harder. Even if it is just a couple selling egg cakes on the roadside, it also has the most practical happiness of ordinary couples.

With what kind of purpose, there will be the result of what direction, whether it is the choice before marriage or the purpose of marriage, don't be influenced by a temporary impulse to build your own future happiness.