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"Square and Circle" I benefited a lot from reading "Square and Circle". I know how to get along with people; Know how to accommodate others; Know how to respect others, but also know how to disrespect others; Know how to stand in this society; Know how to face setbacks in life; Know what attitude to treat victory and failure; Know how to learn; Know how to ... in short, after reading this book, I have broadened my mind a lot and don't often walk into the dead end of my mind; No longer often spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain; Don't often say hurtful things, but often praise people who deserve praise; No longer always doubt the people around you; no longer ...

The content of Fang Yu Yuan involves quality accomplishment, temperament accomplishment, humanistic accomplishment, social ability, communicative ability, speaking ability and so on. The purpose is to help you have a happier life and a more successful career. There is a sentence in this book that I like very much, that is, Carl, a famous American educator? A sentence from Rogers: "No one can teach anyone anything". No one can teach you knowledge. To truly master knowledge and turn it into your own wealth, you can only rely on yourself. The role of teachers and books is only an external cause, and it is always you who change, that is, the internal cause. At the beginning, it introduces three aspects of how to succeed: first, stimulate the desire to succeed; If people want to succeed, they must have an unswerving spirit of struggle. The strength of this spirit really depends on the size of your desire for success, and you must inspire the fire of desire to an incandescent state. Now we don't have it, which is not sad. Sadly, we dare not aspire to have it. The greatest tragedy in life lies in the disappearance of dreams. Once a person has no dreams, it indicates that the romantic drama of his life is coming to an end. Everyone should have dreams. Without dreams, life will be exhausted. Therefore, we should have a desire for development to stimulate our own strength. "To be a man, you must be famous and never be a beggar in life." Two: use your head, which is the motto of every successful person; The brain is a very complicated thing, and it is also the most wonderful auxiliary machine for success in the world. We all have it, but how should we use it? It is conformity that makes one's brain adapt to the thoughts of the general public and makes one's brain mediocre; Or try to innovate when absorbing knowledge, break mediocrity and be unique? It depends on your choice. Any one of us who wants to succeed in any sense must think with his mind. Only by using the sword of thinking can we get opportunities and succeed. Third, action can lead to success; It is useless to talk and think without practical actions, no matter how useful, beneficial and innovative your ideas are. Practice is the best teacher. If you want to gain knowledge of life, you must practice it yourself. Action is a severe test of whether you really have confidence and courage. Ideological shock and emotional excitement are only short-lived. What really matters is action, action. ...

High quality articles. The key to success in life is to have confidence, courage and enthusiasm. Don't you think so? Many problems and difficulties in life actually stem from your lack of confidence: once you gain confidence, many problems will be solved. Self-confidence can keep you at your best and help stimulate your potential. Self-confidence will bring you vitality, glow, make you talk freely, and produce a charm that unconsciously infects people; And losing self-confidence will make you look petty and unable to play your own level. Do "heart to God, begging". Courage makes you invincible! It is not enough to build self-confidence, have goals and recognize the environment, but also to have the courage to act. Courage is to dare to do something, that is, to show confidence in action. When you feel everything, all you need is courage, an action supported by courage. Enthusiastic people are persistent emotional and physical devotion to things. You have to be enthusiastic to do everything, so you can get twice the result with half the effort. Life accomplishment of successful people: here is a rule that I like very much. Now I will share it with you. When judging others, don't judge others yourself. A person who often criticizes the shortcomings of others and accuses others of their mistakes will only make people feel picky, difficult to get along with and annoying. Therefore, we should establish the feelings of fraternity. Only "fraternity" people can be open-minded, warm and friendly, ready to help others, and be invincible in interpersonal communication. Hugo said: "The ocean is the vastest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky". We must learn to be kind to ourselves and others, and life will be full of happiness. Maintain personal dignity: People who pay attention to maintaining personal dignity show self-esteem, which is often easy to be respected and give people a good impression. Maintaining personal dignity is very complicated. We should not only safeguard the dignity of individual rights and characteristics, but also the dignity of moral quality. Life accomplishment: Sometimes we often worry about some interpersonal relationships and always feel that we have made enemies everywhere, so we often wronged ourselves to cater to others. We can't cater to everyone and please everyone in this world, otherwise life will be too tired. What's the point of life? An important purpose of life is to live freely, naturally and happily! You can't like everyone in this world, so you can't ask everyone in this world to like you. It's normal for a few people not to like you, and worrying is asking for trouble. Although we can't win the favor of all the people in the world, we should try our best to reduce the number of enemies. One less enemy means one more friend. Don't offend people because of our mistakes and the incorrect way of treating others. Whether we like it or not, the people around us are real, so we should learn how to treat others. Whether the topic is suitable or not depends on the people around you and the atmosphere at that moment. Avoid topics that will make both sides angry or argue, be sensitive to the surrounding situation, and don't offend others intentionally or unintentionally. Don't gossip, don't offend others, don't pry into others' privacy. We also need to learn psychological plastic surgery. How can we achieve psychological cosmetic surgery? First of all, we must lift the psychological shackles; Then establish an optimistic attitude towards life; Finally, it is to overcome depression. Freedom of mind helps to maximize our potential and show our pleasant beauty. As long as a person is generous and open-minded, then almost nothing can hurt him. Build an optimistic life! Optimists are popular everywhere and are angels in life. Their cheerful and energetic emotions are beneficial to everyone, and their charm is endless ... If they are not satisfied, they can vent them in time to keep their mentality balanced and enhance their control. To properly vent the sense of depression, I will now introduce you to several good methods: 1, and say it in front of your close friends. By the way, friends are used to vent, to use, to talk and to care. It seems that there are many contradictions, but in fact it is. So we should cherish every friend around us, because they are tolerant and considerate of our unreasonable demands. 2. Go to a big place and make a hullabaloo about; 3. Write the dissatisfaction on paper and tear it off; 4. Listen to some light music or watch jokes; 5. Sing and relax by yourself. I hope the above methods are useful to you. After all, people and animals are different. Don't be a slave to your inner impulse, but control your inner impulse with lofty ideals. Self-discipline can bring real freedom and greater success. Self-discipline is the road to happiness.

Skills. To learn interpersonal relationships well, we must first understand the dialectics of friends and enemies. We should eliminate the defensive mentality, don't always doubt others, think that others like you, and others will really like you, and dare to judge the hand of friendship. The effectiveness of language lies in appropriateness, which promotes the elimination of wariness. The way to start a conversation is actually very simple. Don't imagine that every word is shining. Dialogue is caused by some simple words. In the process of conversation, you should look for the common interests of both sides. People are emotional animals, so we should learn to invest emotionally: we will get the result of helping others and show sincere concern for others. ...

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