Why do you feel that blind date girls are basically left over by others or nobody wants them?

One? It doesn't matter whether the blind date girl is left behind by others. What matters is whether you can find a wife. Many brothers are old, and they are still wondering whether the blind date was left by others. Just have fun. You don't care if it's left over. Besides, even if it is left over, whether it can be played or not is a problem. Eating in your mouth is your own meat. It is very practical at present. Don't dwell on these so-called unrealistic things. Find a blind date. The important thing is to see whether it suits you, whether you can talk about it, and finally whether you can walk into the palace of marriage. Let go of some historical issues that are not worth tangled, and don't even mention them. Be a smart person and have some meaningless idleness. There is really no need to have a baby.

? Is a girl who has been in love once clean? The opinions of the people who eat melons (1) reach the first love planet;

Clean, people who have been in love once are still clean. She has only been in love twice, maybe just holding hands. This can be considered clean. Of course, if she had been in love twice, she would have hugged and kissed each other and done more.

(2) The viewpoint of midsummer cruise:

In the sea of people, there are many men with traditional ideas; Therefore, when looking for a life partner, everyone is particularly eager for his woman to be a clean woman; Cleanliness here means that women keep a white and flawless body; Most women, as long as they enter the sea of people and fall in love, will not keep their most precious things; But there are exceptions, because some women take this kind of thing very seriously; Before you get married, you won't let men touch you casually; So it doesn't mean that the person you loved is not clean.

(3) Lin Shenwu's point of view:

Of course, whether a clean girl is pure or not depends not on how many times she has been in love, but mainly on what she thinks. There are many people who have been in love several times in this society now. They seldom get married after one love. Some talked about it and found that the two sides were incompatible, had no temper, or had other contradictions and could not get married. Then I'll definitely have to find someone I can get along with and continue talking. Can you say that people are impure?

Three? Blind date is to make up for the boys who are the least able to chase girls and the girls who are the most difficult to chase. Some people say blind date is unscientific. It brings together the boys who are the least able to chase girls and the girls who are the most difficult to chase. It sounds reasonable at first. But let's talk about the logic behind it. What is the underlying logic of blind date? It is adaptation.

Is to find someone who suits you, not someone who falls in love at first sight. The adaptation mentioned here is generally some hard conditions, or a range rather than a specific point like appearance, such as the height problem I mentioned earlier.

People who come on blind dates come with templates in their heads. Just like you pinch a character in a game, you have a plan in mind before you pinch it. Everyone will try to get in touch with the opposite sex within this psychological expectation, and it is very late to really talk about men and women or marriage. In addition to the hard conditions such as height and weight, region, occupation and family background, appearance is dispensable. Because the upper limit of face value is not high, the lower limit is not low. Most people, it is unrealistic for you to say that Liu Yifei is handsome and Daniel Wu is handsome, but it is even more unrealistic for you to say that you are ugly like an alien. We are all ordinary people, with noses and eyes. Beauty and ugliness are not that different.

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Four? Is a woman "clean" after experiencing more feelings? Listen to the men's understanding! It is also an indisputable fact that men want their women to be clean no matter how many times they have experienced feelings. In fact, every woman is very simple at first, but the more men she meets, the understanding and ideas of feelings will naturally change.

Once a woman has experienced more, she will naturally change, and she is no longer as simple as she was at the beginning. So, women have experienced more feelings, are they still clean? Listen to the men's understanding!

(1) @ Haifeng at least knows more than other women.

Women are the simplest and most ignorant when they are young and have never experienced feelings. Their views on men are also very simple, and it is easy to trust men. Once you have experienced more feelings, you will meet more men. At this time, women will naturally know more about men and know a lot of things.

In front of such a woman, some of men's love routines no longer work, and even make women feel naive and disdain these behaviors of men. I think love should still be with women with less experience, so it will be simpler and happier to get along.

(2) "@ Nianhuajun" I think a woman with more experience is more realistic.

At the beginning, women are longing for love, and all they ask of men is to love themselves. Once you have experienced more, you will see the true face of men and know that men say beautiful things, but they can really do very little.

Slowly, women will become practical, because they know that in feelings, everything a man says is false, and only reality is true. Therefore, it is normal for women to experience more feelings and become realistic.

3 "@ Hanako" woman's body is at least not clean.

In the previous era, let alone men and women living together, even kissing and holding hands were not allowed. Now, it is not the first time for some women to get married.

Although men are the same now, they can accept women's situation, but they will still be a little careful in their hearts. Without this experience, men would definitely want women to be with them.

Although such a situation has long been a social norm, I will still mind it myself. I hope my partner has not experienced so many men.

(4) There will be more marks on @ Little Mu Zi.

Whether a woman has experienced many men can be seen from the traces she left. Once a woman has experienced more, some changes will take place in her heart. Maybe she doesn't know, but it's easy to find out when others get along with her.

Generally, such women are no longer simple, but more mature. When she is in love, she becomes less curious and curious, and can quickly tell whether what a man says is true or not. Moreover, women have experienced more men, and many routines in love have long been familiar, and they will feel normal, so they are no longer so easy to believe and curious.

(5) Women like "Brother Feng" will have more flavor.

I think whether a woman has experienced many men can be judged by her smell. Women who have never experienced men can see at a glance that such women are cleaner and simpler.

The more men a woman experiences, the more she smells. This smell has nothing to do with good or bad. It may be a mature taste or a realistic taste, which is easy to see. Some men prefer women with this taste, while others prefer women with little experience and simplicity.

In fact, it is not the reason why women have experienced more men, but that they have not met their favorite type or met some unreliable men. But too many women's experiences will affect their feelings in the future, and in men's hearts, they will always care about women's emotional experiences.

Therefore, as a woman, we should know how to live an honest and clean life. When choosing the other half, keep your eyes open and don't be confused by the man's appearance.

I have been in love, and I am dirty? Are you kidding! " Big joke 0 1

There is no absolute equality in emotional issues.

You're an old virgin, so you have to find a chaste woman? That's unrealistic.

If you love someone, don't care about her past. Otherwise, when you think she is dirty, you will become an asshole yourself.

02

Xiaobei is very open-minded about feelings. She wants to fall in love freely, but she doesn't exclude blind date.

From college to work, she has been in love three times. Although they all broke up in the end, she didn't care, because these three emotional experiences taught her a lot.

Shortly after the third love, the family arranged a blind date for her and she accepted it.

According to the introducer, the man introduced to her is a good-looking man, and she must grasp it well.

She looked at the photos sent to her by the introducer. From the appearance, it was really her type, but she didn't know what human nature was.

The blind date came, and she was full of expectations.

He is not much different from the photo, tall and well dressed. So, she talked with him confidently.

They hit it off, as if they had endless words. Originally, she was going to talk for an hour, but after talking for a whole morning, she liked him more and more and felt that their relationship was secure.

However, to her great disappointment, when talking about each other's emotional experience, his words made her unacceptable.

He: "Have you ever been in love?"

She: "Three times."

He: "Ah? Three times! So much? "

She: "I didn't know until I told it three times. I am tired and want to get married. "

He: "In the process of love, did you have sex?"

This question is very private, but since he asked, she didn't want to hide it. "Yes!"

After listening to this, his face immediately pulled down. "I thought you had been keeping your nose clean!" It seems that I think too much. "

She doesn't understand. "What do you mean?"

"It doesn't mean anything? I just can't accept women who have sex with men. I'm a neat freak. I feel dirty. I am a man of principle. Although I have talked about love, I will not have sex with them if I can't get married. "

She doesn't care about anything else. His word "dirty" made her feel extremely uncomfortable. All her previous affection for him suddenly fell to the bottom and she didn't want to say anything. She only thinks that this man is an animal.

He is still talking about his concept of chastity, and she can't stand it. She picked up her bag, stood up and left.

She felt sick and almost ran all the way home. She never thought that a blind date would meet such a man.

As soon as she got home, he called, "Did I say something wrong? It's rude of you to run like this! "

She didn't even bother to scold, so she hung up and hacked him.

Such a man makes her feel sick. She thinks that if a man can't even accept a woman's past, why should he get married and live your single life?

03

Xiaobei said: "This kind of man should be praised as a good man. Really blind. Maybe he is really good at other things, but emotionally, he is an idiot. Where are so many women waiting for you? What qualifications do you have to let others be honest with you? You dislike women's past and women's filth. This is a dirty heart. "

04

Qian Qiu said, "In the process of blind date, you will always meet all kinds of people. Some people have positive views on marriage, but some people's views on marriage are completely nonsense. The purpose of blind date is to get married. You should consider whether she is suitable for you now, instead of clinging to her past. It's not appropriate if it's not appropriate. There is no need to hurt people. "

05

Mishi said, "It is said that women are melodramatic. In fact, some men are even more hopeless when they are melodramatic. Many men always use a "virgin bitch" theory to treat sexual topics. It is unrealistic to ask women to be 100% clean even if they don't talk about it. If you really can't accept a woman who has been in love, then you can be single for life. "

06

Some people don't talk about feelings in front of people, so they have to focus on sex.

Why not think about it, where does sex start without feelings?

It's not that she's been in love before and it's dirty to have sex with a man. This is simply robber logic.

Now that you have decided to get married, don't care what happened.

Emotional cleanliness should be used in the right place. If she is fooling around when she is in love with you, it is dirty. But if she hasn't been in love with you and you are full of dirty words, then I'm sorry, no one will love you so much.