What are the performances of people who look down on you?

People who look down on you will often sneer at you, vilify you behind your back, and will not give you a good face, just watching your jokes. It is normal to have ups and downs in life. If someone laughs at your failure and even deliberately exposes your scars, don't be such a friend. Some people are naturally mean and indifferent, always joking about other people's shortcomings, and they don't feel guilty at all.

When my husband and I first got married, we opened a breakfast shop. I lost a lot of money because I didn't know how to run it, and finally closed down and owed a lot of debts. Many relatives and friends know the news that we are down and out, so they are cynical and unwilling to associate with us. I think people who really look down on you will behave as follows.

First, people who look down on you will hit the nail on the head and show no mercy. They don't care about your face at all, deliberately embarrass you and base their happiness on your pain. I remember that after my husband and I failed to do business, when I went home for the New Year, my relatives asked questions. In fact, they are all watching cold jokes and laughing that it is difficult for us to turn over. In the face of those who look down on themselves, we should not be too cowardly, but must be strong and tell them that we are not easy to bully.

Second, always deliberately belittle you and think that you will never be mediocre. They will think you are a loser, you can't succeed at all, you can only be a mediocre person, so you are looked down upon from your heart. Don't lose your pride. You can be poor, but not humble. Regardless of success or failure, we should keep an arrogant attitude towards life and don't look disheartened. When you are optimistic and confident all day, others will not laugh at you.

Third, taunt you in front of your friends and deliberately slander your reputation. They will take your pain as a laughing stock and slander your reputation behind your back. They do this because they think you are weak and will not resist at all. The more people look down on you, the more you have to take the courage to fight and occasionally lose your temper to let them know that you have a bottom line.