Why are some rich relatives unwilling to help poor relatives?

Why are rich people unwilling to help poor relatives now?

As the saying goes, "cold does not depend on lamps, and poverty does not depend on relatives." Especially those relatives who are not very close, everyone will be annoyed. What's more, they are relatively rich relatives. In rural areas, I am most afraid of being borrowed money, because borrowing money is such a thing, and it is difficult to ask when to pay it back. But from the perspective of rich relatives, it is sometimes difficult for rich relatives to be afraid of having relatives to borrow money or to rely on their own resources.

Help, people think it is right, after all, are relatives, and so rich, saying no, feels very inhuman. So for those people, just harden your hearts and sweep the snow in front of the door. Because rich relatives definitely want to have sex with richer relatives, so that everyone's resources can be used with each other, but poor relatives can't. For poor relatives and poor relatives, they are warm-hearted, because without money, the relationship will naturally be simpler. Because it doesn't involve economic interests.

First, rich relatives are afraid that someone will take refuge in the countryside. Many people go out to work, which is arranged by their families to help them introduce a job. Otherwise, go out and find it yourself. First, parents are worried about the chaos in the outside world. Second, the children at home have just gone out to work, are strangers, and many people take care of them. But for the relatives who took refuge, the mood was very bad. On the one hand, there are many people living at home, and there are not so many empty beds. On the other hand, the monthly food expenses at home are also very high.

When people come to take refuge in themselves, they will feel a little uncomfortable at first, but because of the mutual affection of relatives, they should treat them well when they come for the first time, otherwise they will get a reputation of being stingy. So many people don't want to stay with relatives after four or five days or a week. Because people always ask you what you want in a roundabout way when you are free. What adults mean is, when are you leaving? People would rather spend a lot of money on dinner than stay at someone else's house for a week or two. So those rich relatives became more and more indifferent to the people who came to visit.

Second, rich relatives are generally more powerful. Life with money is definitely better than before. Everything about values has gradually changed. From being looked down upon by others before to being gradually respected, it is naturally getting stronger and stronger. For that relative, they are like a big boss, pointing fingers at others, because they can make money, earning more than them, sometimes you can see it from some words, or the red envelopes given to children in the New Year vary from person to person. Rich people naturally want to communicate with richer people, exchange resources in their hands to pave the way for their future lives, and also want to talk about resources with poor relatives.

Third, poor relatives are strong when they are in trouble. They are not very profitable to themselves, but they are very enthusiastic when they are called to help. Because in their eyes, they are also a useful person. Although they don't have much money or social resources, they are strong. What do you usually do at home? There are not so many people in the family who want to have a wedding reception. Just call them and they will certainly come to help. Help is not the kind of casual response, but very active and attentive. I don't want some rich relatives to say that they will help, and as a result, they are far away, and I am embarrassed to rush. After all, I asked for help.

Relatives are always strange. Some have good relationships, often moving, and some are not very close. They only get together after they leave their relatives in the New Year. Some people don't even want to leave their loved ones. They feel that the relationship is too weak to ignore. Most of these people should be relatives with some money. Only maintain the kinship you think is worth maintaining, and leave nothing else, unless you visit your relatives. Otherwise, it may be right to lose this relative.