Girl, please pay attention to your "first child" and don't let unexpected pregnancy affect your life. Do you agree with this?

Introduction: Love is natural, which is a wonderful thing, but always remember to protect yourself. Abortion is bound to be harmful to health, even if it is advertised as painless, don't take chances.

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In today's society, cohabitation has become a trend, but what is inconsistent with this openness is the protective measures when sharing a room.

As a result, abortion has become a common phenomenon, and it is getting younger and younger, and advertisements for painless abortion are flying all over the sky.

What is "easy to solve in sleep", "can be discharged after finishing" and "completely harmless to the body" and so on. On the long vacation, the hospital's abortion room is even more crowded.

There are many girls who are very young or even very young. Maybe they are still studying, or maybe they are helpless. Unexpected children are doomed to be born, which is embarrassing.

People used to think that the first child was the smartest and healthiest, but now, not every girl can give birth to her first child smoothly.

Perhaps it is because of the limitation of realistic conditions, perhaps because of the disillusionment of emotions. When I walked into the gynecological clinic, I was not happy, but uneasy and guilty, lying on the cold bed in the operating room with complicated feelings.

Although it is painless abortion, there will still be some pain after the operation, and more is probably inner emptiness and confusion. Will they regret it? Maybe, but not for long. Life is too busy.

Some even take chances, thinking that they can be born again anyway, but life can't be delayed. Some girls even have abortions again and again.

Since we know that the time is not ripe, the conditions are too thin and the career is unstable, why not be cautious?

In the final analysis, it is the lack of sex education for many years, which has not been correctly guided, and only cares about enjoying youth, but does not know that protecting oneself is the most basic thing.

A colleague of mine, in his early forties, doesn't have a son and a half yet. He and his wife have nothing to do but work. In recent years, the focus of their lives is to seek medical treatment everywhere, hoping that "a good pregnancy will come."

However, running around again and again, in exchange for disappointment again and again.

Although he doesn't say anything, he can imagine the worries of the elderly at home and the pressure of the couple. As an ordinary person, a family without children is always incomplete. Fortunately, their husband and wife have always been very loving and their feelings have not been affected. However, isn't this more regrettable?

In fact, his wife was pregnant when she first got married. But I was too young to think it was premature. I wanted to do more business, but I gave up. This was just an ordinary operation at that time.

No one expected that after two years, when I wanted to have a baby, there was no movement at all. In the past ten years, they have changed many hospitals and tried countless earthwork, but there is still no result.

Sometimes he would jokingly say, "If that child had been born, he would be in middle school now!" " "There is helplessness in the tone.

If the husband and wife really can't conceive, they will be IVF. I have already consulted. Of course, doing IVF is a very laborious task, and time and money, especially for women, will suffer. The point is, whether it will succeed in the end is still unknown.

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We said, girl, you must protect yourself. At least protect your body. It belongs only to us, and no one can hurt it in the name of love, even unintentionally. Some mistakes can be made, but some regrets we can't afford.

When many girls live with men, there are always countless beautiful dreams and sweet dreams. The men around them are everything.

A girl who is addicted to love can give everything.

At this time, the economic foundation is often the weakest, all aspects are not so stable, and there are many realities. Maybe he is busy starting a business, or maybe you just found a job that is not particularly satisfactory.

None of this prevents you from enjoying love. For a girl, love is her whole world. Even if the conditions are worse at the moment, even if the man in front of us is not mature enough, a small rental house can hold all the dreams and summon up all the courage.

Cohabitation is a common practice now. Although two of a kind is romantic and happy, due to the lack of restraint, he naturally lacks a guarantee. Because of the physiological differences between men and women, it is often women who suffer.

Often men enjoy all the benefits of cohabitation, but they don't have to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations in marriage.

Only those who hurt themselves are truly miserable. If the conditions don't allow, you don't want to enter the marriage for the time being, and you are not ready for a new life. You'd better pay attention.

There are only two options for getting pregnant before marriage, either abortion or getting married and having children in a hurry. Many people don't want to lower their living standards, so they have to be brutally aborted and suffer physical and mental pain.

When I was pregnant, the doctor asked me as usual that all the girls around me had a history of abortion, and some were particularly young. Most people didn't leave a child. Some are forced by the helplessness of life, some are for their own careers, and some are emotional changes with their boyfriends. After all, it is girls who pay for reality.

In an increasingly open era, we haven't learned to protect ourselves.

I lacked preparation and knowledge in this field before, or I was embarrassed to say it. When there was an accident, I was lucky enough to think that abortion should not harm my health. After all, this phenomenon is very common.

Even some girls choose their own medicine flow, so that going to the hospital can save money and trouble, but they don't know that it is easy to cause massive bleeding or other accidents and suffer more crimes.

My cousin has been in love with her boyfriend for many years and has had three miscarriages. I don't know if they both have poor memories.

The first time I had an abortion, my cousin was 19 years old and very scared. She said that she cried all night. It should have been a long memory, but the next year, she was pregnant again, and her boyfriend had to go to court for her career, so she had to miscarry again.

The surface is quite calm, saying that if you want children in the future, you will definitely choose to have them at the best time to create a better environment for your baby.

As the saying goes, once you fall, you gain wisdom, but the fact is that once you fall, there will always be a second time. By the time of the third abortion, my boyfriend didn't even show up because of a business trip.

She was wronged and called her boyfriend before the operating table. The other party said, "I am very busy. Hang up first. " Abortion seems to be no big deal. In a few days, she will be alive and kicking again, and she will have half a month's maternity leave.

At that moment, her heart fell to the bottom.

My cousin finally broke up with him. A man who doesn't know how to take care of his girlfriend's body, no matter how much he says he loves you, is like a joke. You think you can keep love with your body, but in the end you find yourself riddled with holes.

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Girls should have an attitude from the beginning, not wait until they suffer.

Now the probability of infertility is increasing. Cohabitation is for love, and abortion is absolutely irresponsible to oneself. Maybe you don't think it matters much. Just be careful in the future. You don't care about your body, and you expect others to care?

You are a student now, so you can't have children. You just started working, and you can't have children yet. You have no car, no house, and you can't have children. ...

But you just got it so carelessly, and then walked into the hospital trembling, like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered.

You won't feel so unlucky that you will be infertile after giving birth to a child. You believe that your love can last forever, even if it has nothing to do with the child.

A man who can't even take care of your body thinks that contraception and childbirth are entirely women's business, but is this selfish in his bones?

One of my colleagues, his family is making great efforts to find a suitable partner for his brother. Beautiful, with a local hukou, good temper. In fact, boys once had a girlfriend who had been in love for seven years. Because she could not get pregnant, she was never accepted by her family.

What about falling in love again The boy left unharmed, because he was also excellent, and he could find better conditions. What happened to that girl? Under the heavy blow, my temperament changed greatly and I went to another city.

I heard that the girl had been pregnant twice before, and the hospital had no conclusion that she could not get pregnant, but the man just quit at home and didn't want to waste time.

The so-called love is sometimes thinner than paper.

Girl, please cherish your first child, including every pregnancy in the future. Let it be fully prepared to come into this world and make it the most precious proof of love. Instead of putting yourself in a dilemma, you can't hurt yourself and become an indelible scar.