Chen Ming, the charm of the rhetoric of "The God of Love"

Chen Ming is very interesting.

"Qi Pa Shuo" has been aired in its fifth season. The audience who are currently talking about the variety show finally saw the emergence of "Ma, Xiao, and Tan" and Jiang Sida shocked the world with his seven-step talent. After a group of professional debaters such as Ru Jing, Qiu Chen, and Huang Zhizhong came out with their golden sentences, we saw this "god of love" debater who "stands at the center of the world and calls for love."

As the "god of love", Chen Ming has finally gained the spotlight from netizens. In fact, Chen Ming is an out-and-out "old weirdo". He not only participated in the recording of the first season with Ma Weiwei, but also went all the way to the present. In almost every season, Chen Ming is labeled as "God of Love" and "Chicken Soup King". On a deeper level, Chen Ming seems very out of place on this stage where he is truly weird and free-spirited. Chen Ming, who seems gentle and courteous, does not seem to be so prominent and eye-catching. He is quite aware of this:

"It doesn't matter if I don't like you. I'm not here to please you. I'm here." Isn’t it better to provide everyone with more diverse perspectives and gain a lot myself? ”

It is not surprising that Chen Ming in the fifth season has given everyone an unsuspecting advantage. This well-behaved young man does not just "fill chicken soup" casually. His insights, experience, logic and three views have precisely blessed his eloquent rendering ability. "Chen Ming touched my heart" and "I am so greasy that I like it" have become the points that appear in the online world. Chen Ming's impression phrase.

Chen Ming’s speech has a characteristic, which is a positive energy that is not chicken-blooded, a chicken soup that is not sentimental, and the charm of a mature man that overflows the screen, becoming the most powerful blessing for his eloquence. You must know that a person's ability to speak well does not mean that he can speak eloquently. Behind every tongue that shines like a lotus, indispensable is a truly charming mind and independent thinking, and a spiritual world that is not anxious or clinging to others.

When asked what he thought of the "Eros Chicken Soup King" who is always jokingly called "Eros Chicken Soup King", Chen Ming was not eager to deny it, but made an analogy:

"It's like, A classmate asked me, "How can I become great?" I said that if you shout "I am the best" in front of the mirror 21 times a day, then you will be the best - this is called chicken soup and has no logical support.

But if a classmate asks me, "How can I become better?" I ask him, "What is your goal?" "What major are you studying now?" "What part do you want to make up for?" ? I will give you a plan, I think it is positive energy supported by logic."

Chen Ming answered very cleverly. There are two tips here. First, it is not too easy to take off your clothes in a hurry. The bias label he likes, but "move with emotion and learn with reason", starting with the most common examples, so that the listener can automatically bring him into the situation he set, "Looking in the mirror every day..." Then It ends with a joking ending, which will not make the listener feel embarrassed as if it were a truth. Then he naturally prints his own point of view - that is, the second half of the word "but". This is what Chen Ming really wants to emphasize. : Everyone in the world recognizes me as the King of Chicken Soup, but chicken soup is positive energy without logic and foundation, and the advice I give is exactly the opposite.

Being able to answer conversations and respond quickly only shows that you have a little bit of cleverness, and these little clevernesses are just a little bit of talent for talking. But Chen Ming does not have such "talent". Chen Ming's words, whether they are sharp questions in the debate or golden quotes in the summary, are not sophistry, but rather charming, and some of his blurted out words are worth savoring again and again.

For example, the rather poetic sentence "Even the material world is probability, and human relationships are elusive smoke and clouds." Comparing the objective reality of the quantum physical world with the subjective uncertainty of human relationships society, closely Then he introduced his side of the story, "If you take it seriously, you will lose."

Here, the process of Chen Ming persuading the audience is actually the process of letting his point of view enter our brains to form consciousness. And with some points of view, through his guidance one by one, the audience will easily "fall into the trap".

Therefore, what he said later will cause a stir,

"How can there be so many things that we can firmly hold in our hands? And the only thing we can do is What is it? Are you serious? Are you too proud?”

At this point, the audience has consciously understood the "elusiveness" of human feelings. The illusory point, so Chen Ming continued to sublimate:

"Sometimes you realize that behind the seriousness, it is because you realize that you are really doing something in your heart, and you really kneel to it... Only then can you give up all your inexplicable speculations and paranoia about the greatness of human nature, and be willing to kneel down, let go, and lose for one thing worth kneeling for, which is actually very wonderful. ”

Have you discovered that we often feel that what Chen Ming says is very reasonable, but in fact it is inseparable from his logical way of speaking, setting scenes and examples, plus there are always some golden sentences worth recalling. If you think about it carefully, Chen Ming will often pull you into the position he wants to set in the first three sentences. Just like in the example just now, the more complete the logic, the better the golden sentence spreads, the more touching the truth, and the more detailed the scene, the better the audience. The louder the cries get.

Chen Ming has a wide range of knowledge, especially in the humanities and social sciences. He said:

"Concentrated and extensive reading laid a good foundation for free expression at the master's level. The formation and summary of many theoretical views were accumulated during that time."

On the stage where there is a heated exchange of words such as Qi Pa Shu or a debate, Chen Ming is always calm and unhurried. He can affirm the performance of the other party and can talk calmly under pressure. His values ????are consistent with those of others. The philosophy of life is revealed to the audience one by one through the way of speaking.

It is unimaginable that the mature and steady Chen Ming was actually born in 1988. He is only 30 years old this year, but it always gives people the illusion that his uncle generation who has been hiding in the city has returned from practicing cultivation. He was a beneficiary of knowledge and good eloquence, but he did not become arrogant or let himself go.

Always maintain restraint and politeness in dealing with things and people, and remain cautious about the current popular "mourning culture carnival". Li Dan always said, "The world is not worth it." Contemporary young people often use this to laugh at themselves, but Chen Ming said, "Whether the world is worth it or not is a choice. When you choose to be worth it, it has the possibility of being worth it."

Because of Chen Ming, we have seen the speaking charm of a "good man" in the secular sense - always keen curiosity, solid knowledge reserve, and a vision that is not affected by boundaries. This is the cornerstone of good eloquence and the inner heart. A true reflection of the world.

Similarly, accumulating the positive energy of warmth and love, striving to find a balance between external vision and self-expression, and maintaining a balance between values, expression skills and content, is what Chen Ming and others really bring to us. Gift.