Man, after forty years old, why don't you do it again?

A person's life can be roughly divided into four stages: the year of ignorance, the year of standing, the year of being puzzled, and the year of being octogenarian.

The age of ignorance is from childhood to adolescence. This is the most fragile and innocent stage of people, and all the good and pain that last a lifetime occur at this stage.

So there is a saying: Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, while unfortunate people have to spend their whole lives curing their childhood.

after the period of ignorance and rebellion, people will gradually grow and mature, and then they will reach the first critical period of their lives: their thirties.

At this time, most people in their early twenties and early thirties have lost their childishness and innocence under the "beating" of society. However, they still have sharp edges and sharp edges, full of blood and passion, and full of longing for their careers and love.

Being passionate at the right time is the best time to start a career and start a family. No matter how hard it is, the young body and mind will not feel tired easily.

and in this period of nothing, no one will be too worried and timid, because there is nothing to lose, so even if it is a loss, it is also a gain.

when the peak period has passed, that is, after forty years old, life has come to the age of no doubt.

After further groping in the society, humanity and reality will completely wear away your sharp edges and corners, making you sleek and sophisticated.

As much as you used to know the meaning of dreams and ambitions, now you know the importance of being worldly.

At the beginning, the high-spirited publicity teenager disappeared, leaving behind a middle-aged man who has experienced many vicissitudes, an adult who has countless reasons in his mind but has no light in his eyes.

Once ambitious, it was gradually exhausted by the helplessness of reality, and the once burning flame in my chest gradually burned to the end.

When people reach middle age, everything will rest. The past stubbornness and hard work of not hitting the south wall and not looking back have long been taken away by time.

all that remains is a compromise with reality.

People are often like this. When they are not sensible, they can live recklessly.

even if you fall down again and again, you can still get up with a smile, pat the dust, wipe the blood and tears, and continue to rampage forward.

when I understand everything later, I dare not do anything. I'm afraid here, and I have to be careful there. Anyway, I have everything I need, and there is no need or desire to work hard again.

Like a miser, he quietly guards his most important things, for fear of losing everything if he is not careful.

you may feel sad because of this, and feel that time is fleeting and the youth is gone.

whenever I recall the past, I always talk about "I thought of that year ...". I can't wait to find a time machine and go back to my youth.

it's human nature to miss the past, but it's meaningless to indulge in it too much.

It's hard to get back the lost youth, even though it's sad, but it's a natural law and something that everyone has to face. Why do you care about it?

when you look around, isn't everything you see and hear all the wealth you bought with the struggle of your youth? Think about yourself who had nothing at the beginning. What can you not be satisfied with?

Life has always been fair. Although the good times are gone, what you once longed for is now in your hand.

In the past, although you had a hearty life, you were just alone. You didn't have a happy family today. You wiped your sweat silently when you were tired, and you cried quietly when you were hurt. You had to bite your teeth to carry it.

It's because I'm alone that I live without scruples and indulge in wild activities, because you know, when traveling alone, I don't expect anyone when I go to a city, and I don't have nostalgia when I leave a city.

After 4 years old, you are no longer that lonely young man with no weakness. Those loneliness and tenacity in the past have turned into tenderness today.

Every night, when walking home, you know that one of the lights in front of you is for you, and the aroma of dinner in the warm night wind is also related to you.

at this time, it doesn't matter whether life is full of passion or not.

where there are family members, even if life is as dull as water, it is satisfying.

Young people are troubled by dissatisfaction, while middle-aged people are calm because of contentment.

isn't this the kind of life we pursue all our lives? Since everything you want has been realized, why bother to be poor?

Besides, even if you want to make trouble, your body won't allow it, your family won't allow it, and the responsibility you have is even more forbidden.

There was once a man who was over 5 years old, but abandoned his family and children for his own selfish desires. He gave himself a more justified reason: "A man is a teenager until he dies."

this sentence, which he thought was full of literary talent, finally spread all over the network-in the form of jokes.

So, people at different ages should do things that suit their own age. Not every age can act recklessly with impunity.

Learn to let nature take its course and be contented, which is to live up to your family, yourself and life.