Cai Kangyong said the classic quotations.

1. If you are talking about something concrete instead of abstract truth, the listener will love it, understand it better and remember it.

2./kloc-for 0/2 years, there were days of laughter, tears and sunshine, accompanied by people coming and going, just every day.

After two people are together, they both feel disillusioned, but they are still together. This is the second stage of love. Don't worry about each other. Stop pretending.

You are in love, but sometimes the person you love doesn't really exist. He may just be an innocent white wall. You are crazy about him, which makes you feel the most? All future love movies are projected on him.

If you love each other, you should compromise with each other's taste. The part that people who live in love enjoy is self-abuse, bring disgrace to oneself, sacrifice and dedication.

6. through study and speech, you will know yourself and others more fundamentally? Find out what you and others are thinking, and most importantly, what kind of person you are.

7. Many people in new york are impatient. If you have to rip out your heart, they may not be in the mood to listen.

8. The more specific the question you ask, the less effort the person who answers it will have. The less hard the person who answers, the greater his strength to chat with you.

9. As human beings, if we are inferior, it is because our desires are inferior. If we are noble, it is because our desires are noble. Civilization shows us taste, and the function of this taste is to let us distinguish whether desire is inferior or noble. Instead of teaching us to be people without desires. Without desire, I'm afraid I can only become boring and get no wisdom.

10, the promise blurted out when you are in love is sincere, just like the fruit from the treetops when the season comes. It's just that you should know that the fruit begins to expire quickly from the moment it leaves the tree. If you don't eat it in time, the fragrant fruit will become rotten and smelly. Therefore, the promise in love often makes us feel uncomfortable later, not because it was false at the beginning, but because it is true and just expired.

1 1, people with weak sense of existence don't have to talk often.

12. Selfishness is our nature, but mature people will understand that selfishness does not mean that we only do ourselves well. We can all hope others under selfish nature, and then we can expect ourselves to live better.

13, the boy in the tight uniform played me, which made me pay more money inexplicably, but it was probably somewhere else that made me lose something.

14, I don't like any kind of people. If I like you, I only like you.

15, people should not be too capricious, because you live for the future. Don't let the future you hate the present you.

16, the wedding ceremony is already cruel. Everyone who is forced to stand has to tell a bunch of lies and swear words, trying to pretend to be very civilized. Now she's making such a mess that she even puts on her ring. It's pathetic.

17, if you care about someone, you will talk to him and let him talk. I believe that "talking" is a human instinct and a way of life that primitive people began to rely on. Primitive people always say to their friends, "the flash in the sky sometimes makes trees burn." That kind of fruit will vomit when eaten. I saw it last time. This child is not mine, throw him out of the cave "and so on.

18, dear baby: It turns out that we have always stubbornly tied beauty and love together. Just like a love picture book full of beautiful illustrations that we read when we were young, we still prefer naive love, and don't confuse money with status. These big people think about things. We just want to bless love as beautiful as flowers.

19 But people who live in the real world are afraid of pain. Once you want to donate a cornea or a kidney to your partner, the sacrifice in this love immediately becomes very physical and unbearable in life.

20. Saying is not a very happy thing. Because you don't have to force yourself into the mire, you will lose the right to say no, and you will lose happiness because many things can't be said. When making a major decision in life, we should always think about whether this major decision deprives us of the right to sayno. The more we accumulate the right to say no, the easier it is for us to be happy.

2 1. People who chase money will be very happy if they really make a lot of money in the end. People who pursue their dreams will be very sad if they finally get a dream.

22. Stay mysterious and give others room to use their imagination.

23, don't pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

24. What will we meet? . We push? Ten times? Will not fall; We push? A hundredfold, Will not fall; We push? Thousands of times? Still won't fall off. ? We just can't fall, but we will become muscular and powerful people. ? Failure should not be an excuse for us to become the weak voluntarily.

25. It must make sense to stubbornly believe in superficial phenomena and use only one logic when encountering anything, or to think that everyone says so. All the above are the root causes of the boring speech. Words are full of thoughtless opinions, just like a plate full of unfrozen frozen meat or frozen jiaozi, which is served to guests.

26. I have no intention of amplifying the goodwill of the world or the malice of the world. I just receive the sunny and rainy weather in real time in proportion. The world and I, only each other.

27. I also like some childish things in that young country: hugging when nothing happens, saying yes or no in person, joking casually, and seriously trying to believe these simple but unrealistic principles of "city, justice".

28. That's not forgiveness, but forget it. We will feel tired after living for a long time, so tell ourselves to forget it. We didn't forgive each other, nor did we ask for forgiveness for every mistake. We're just tired and forget about it. Just because time has been erased for us doesn't mean we should forgive.

29, the first love period, the mother who needs to avoid most-in the eyes of first love, the world is only equal to one person. This man came, the whole world came, this man left, and the whole world was destroyed. How can a man who is so close to death stand a tearful mother asking him to go to the alley laundry to find a missing button?

30. The way to give others less trouble is to solve the trouble in your own hands. Others don't exist to serve you.

3 1, the purpose of criticism is to impress each other, let them realize their mistakes and get back on track, rather than belittle each other.

32. Yes, there are many things I don't understand. Mozart, who often wrote songs to God, didn't often write cursing three-character classics into his songs. Foreigners who don't understand them sing solemnly.

33. We often don't love ourselves enough. We often need people who love us to find out how good we are. I think most people tend to ignore the best part of themselves when they are blindly in love. We finally rely on the person who loves us deeply and makes us believe that we deserve to be loved. We are good people. So don't turn down the opportunity to make you feel good.

34. Is it true that every injury in love is like every knife when wood and stone are carved, and finally the more rewarding self hidden in us will gradually appear in front of each other.

35. Gossip is inevitable. Gossip is necessary, but you can pursue a tasteful way of gossip instead of speaking ill of others behind their backs.

If you want to express yourself in your speech, don't ignore that you can express yourself in your listening ability, not just in your speaking ability.

37. If you don't fall in love, you won't die, but if you love, you will come back to life.

38. One day, all this will pass. As soon as I think of this result, I am gratified that no matter how exhausted my love and hatred are, it will pass. Insomnia, being wronged in racing and being too poor will all pass. Being despised, being forced to lie, being forced to admit that you can't change anything, or being ugly will all pass.

39. You are what you say.

40. If the means are evil, the whole thing is doomed to be evil. Some people or organizations say that they have to use evil means for just and beautiful goals. This statement is absolutely unacceptable! Once accepted, his methods will only become more and more evil, and the beautiful goal of justice will never be achieved. A world that gives in to evil endlessly is equal to poisonous soil, and all flowers become extravagant hopes.

4 1, we don't know each other's names, we just often wait at the same station, stop at the same window, laugh when the same program is broadcast, and lose sleep under the same moon. However, these are enough to make me love you. I know all about names, addresses, education and occupations, but I don't love them at all. I love you wholeheartedly and rely on this love, and I think life is worth living.

42, suddenly found that love disappeared, often very wrong, I don't know what happened. At this time, although you can force questions in every way, it will only be embarrassing. My advice to this moment is: sit down and take a deep breath, close your eyes and recall how ignorant and unreasonable this love was when it first came. I will go where I came from, so that when I look back leisurely, I may finally wake up to the essence of love and let it go.

43. Anger means that others do stupid things, and then we act like idiots instead of them.

44. You will tell everyone your birth in tears. You will tell everyone that you are hungry by crying. If there are any signs that endanger your existence, such as a mosquito being bitten or burned, or a big dog being cruel to you, you will cry to remind others to help you out of danger. It's no use laughing.

45, love is very passive, need each other's reaction; Love is also very loose and needs each other's personality.

46. We love that person's heart, soul, talent and personality. What we love is not that person's reproductive ability.

47. Choosing the person I love is to create a wound for myself, and choosing the person who loves me is to give myself a pair of armor.

48. Spoken English is something that you can improve yourself by snacks. And speaking well, the biggest gain, of course, is ourselves.

49. Don't tell me that you love me in these festivals. When you say you love me, that day is my holiday. The deepest love always shares joys and sorrows; The strongest affection is always warm and cold.

50. We will meet all kinds of walls. If we push the wall ten times, it won't fall; We push the wall a hundred times, but it won't fall down; We pushed the wall a thousand times, but it still didn't fall down. The wall just won't fall down, but we will be muscular and push the wall hard to become powerful people. The failure of the wall should not be an excuse for us to be the weak voluntarily.

5 1, a fire rises in the dark, so warm and happy, that fire is ever-changing and intoxicating. So is the beginning of love. The loneliness of the whole world has subsided, making room for our fire. The test of love is not how to make a fire, but how to keep looking for firewood to keep the fire burning and spend the next long night.

52. I kept the short message you sent me at that time without deleting it. Because I still need some evidence to prove that even you loved me so much.

The so-called "giving" is often just a way for us to realize our dreams. Maybe in the process of realization, others will benefit from it, but it doesn't mean that others owe us. Similarly, if we benefit, it doesn't mean that we owe others.

54. Every time I take part in Qipa's talk, my attitude to measure the position of this topic is not to completely divide the black and white sides, but to think about which side I will like the world better. This is a simple standard I have adopted.

55. I'm not gay because I like you, nor do I like you because I'm gay. I just like someone, and we happen to be of the same sex.

56. Leave meaningless victories to the other side, and those who know how to give up will talk.

57. One day, all this will pass, and I am very pleased to think of this result.

No matter how much you want to get rid of that place, don't show cold eyes. Anyway, you should show the enthusiasm of "talk to you later". Things are changing. Who knows what role this person will play in the next round of life? Even if you just want to get rid of him at the moment, you can still make fewer enemies. Because the enemy is the most important asset. The more you have, the faster you die.

59. In the future, you will definitely appreciate yourself now.

60. Who do you admire most in your heart? You don't have to be that person, but use that person's spirit and methods to be yourself.

6 1, the bed will also witness many fragile moments. Sometimes I'm just so tired that I lie in bed and look up at the ceiling, wondering what's the point of making myself so tired. Sometimes I am heartbroken and cry in bed. Sometimes I get sick and quarrel with my body, but I can't just walk away.

62. Goo goo is like many of us. It is normal to observe without inferring. He went to Italy to play, so it's unreasonable to draw inferences.

63. We make a wish and pray that it will come true, but sometimes the way it comes true makes us sad. It's like diamond rain in the sky. We are trapped in the desert, and we will die of dehydration.

64. To live is to suffer. If the taste is too bitter, spit it out quickly and rinse your mouth. If you can't spit it out and have to swallow it, then swallow it quickly. Whether you want to spit it out or swallow it, you just don't put bitter water in your mouth and chew it carefully. Bitterness exists to help us avoid bad luck next time, not to serve us every meal.

65. But I never really want to visit successful people, because I don't think success should be defined as the only value of life. When you are interviewed about how you succeeded, I usually reply that I don't think how I succeeded. The second is that I don't think life has to be successful. There must be many people who fail. Shouldn't a loser have a good life?

66. In fact, everything is a memory in the end, so please try to remember it correctly: if it is not love, don't remember it as love. If it's not a kiss, don't write it down as a kiss. However, if it is true love, of course, don't miss it. Be sure to remember it as love.

67. The more troublesome you are at the beginning of your life, the lazier you are at studying. The later, the more likely you are to miss the people and things you are interested in and the new scenery.

"What are you doing" is interesting in itself, but silence is richer and more memorable than chatter.

69. People like their names very much. When others write to you and talk to you on the phone, if you mention your name from time to time, your concentration and recognition will be greatly improved.

70. Self-mockery is something that only confident people can do!

7 1, man, when some others look up to you, you should learn to look down on yourself.

72. I thought I was loved, but I was not. Where can I go to complain?

73. Some people envy other people's love, just as they envy other people's clothes, and they can't wait to buy an identical one. Please don't think so. You don't know what that seemingly beautiful dress tastes like. Maybe she choked, maybe she was hungry for five years before she put on that dress, or maybe the fabric made her itchy and rash all over. You're not the one wearing it. You don't know.

74. If you only read books that suit your taste, you will always know only what you already know.

75. You think you miss him to the extreme, and you can't miss him more. As a result, at an unexpected moment, you succeeded, and you missed him a little more than you originally missed him.

76. When the other person brings up a topic that you don't want to pick up at all, don't rush to resist, but connect the topic that the other person is keen on lightly to a very life direction.

77. Your life is yours. When you feel the wind, the wind is blowing; The universe only exists in the heart. You may have to bear what others decide for you, what you believe and what you admit, but you can also put it down then.

78. Whether love is overvalued probably depends on whether this person is standing on the high or low side of life. If you happen to stand at the height of life, you will probably feel that love is not that high; And if you accidentally stand at the bottom of life, you will probably hope that love will reach out from above and pull yourself up.

79. However, to be able to say such a thing, you still need to do some homework for yourself in advance, and change the people you admire according to the target of your speech.

80. I like the peace of death. I don't want to think about things, and I don't want to destroy this peace.

8 1, in many places, you think there is no trace of love. Many people, you think you have never experienced love. You have such a misunderstanding, just because, ah, you didn't brush gently with your hand. Take a gentle breath and brush with your hand, and love will appear silently, just like those little stars you ignore in the night sky.

82. Unless that person can make you live a better life than when you were single, why leave single for that person?

83. People only meet once. I will miss me, and you will miss you. Fair.

Sometimes, long after the relationship has ended, we gradually realize that the way we loved that person at that time was wrong. Then, we suddenly wanted to get that man back, fall in love again.

85. Does he really remember me? This humble feeling is almost similar to what ghosts will feel when they look back at the world, but it can still make us remember it fresh, feel a little surprise and comfort, and let our hearts buried in the ashes shine again for a second, because this second, we reviewed our love.

86. We just keep learning to smile at the absurd and strange floating world, because if we can really learn to live like this, even the most difficult dance steps can sometimes become small dances.

87. Talent is very similar to frozen meat in the refrigerator. No matter how good the meat is, it will be sour if it is frozen for too long. If you know that you have a gift, it's like knowing that there is frozen meat in your refrigerator. There is nothing to be proud of. It's better to use that talent for making things than to store a pile of sour meat, fill your refrigerator and finally break it.

88. There is no need to worry about the depth of the problem. Everyone who speaks needs the encouragement of the obedient party to speak more freely. As long as your reaction is an encouragement, no matter how important and profound the other person is, he will be encouraged. Go ahead. Don't pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

89. How can you call it "compromise" by insisting blindly and making concessions blindly? That's called giving up.

90. If you are happy all the time, it is difficult to support.

9 1, you have to give him your future. Is this love? Still lazy?

92. It's not your fault that you are not motivated, but you will miss it if you are not motivated.

93. When I love you alone, I must be the sun, and I rely on my own light to support me. When I was finally loved by you, I rested and became the moon. I rely on your light to confirm my existence.

94. The world is made up of those who want to remember and those who want to forget.