"Li Dan, stop pretending!"

Recently, Lee Guo's birthday was scolded again!

The reason is that Li went to see the first issue of Life I yearn for 5 on his birthday.

In the process of transporting saplings, Li Dan kept shouting that he was tired and said how difficult it was for him. He and Michael Chen also complained to each other.

This operation attracted netizens' dissatisfaction and thought that he was so tired that he should not be on the show.

I remember before Li's birthday, he liked to use the title "the laziest guest" to mention hot search. In the program "Life I yearn for", as soon as he arrived at the mushroom house, he said that he didn't like working and he would lie down if he could.

Later, everyone went to dig bamboo shoots, and one of them kept shouting tired before digging, "Tired, exhausted, empty."

But in fact, if you watch the program carefully, you will find that even though he is always complaining, he has done a lot of work, except lying down for a while, and he is sweating like a pig.

Do you think this looks like those people we meet in our lives?

They always seem to get the first place in the exam effortlessly. Before the exam, they also said, "What if I haven't reviewed?" They always get off work on time and hand in PPT on time the next day. The day before, they said, "I can't finish it this time."

It was not until later that you discovered that you were the only one who really didn't work hard, and those who said that they didn't work hard were studying hard behind their backs.

The talk show queen once quipped in the program: "On Li's birthday, you pretended not to work hard, but you really worked hard."

Every time I see him in the company, he always says, I'm drinking and taking wedding photos.

As a result, a new book was published a few days later.

Look at his occupation. He is a poet, writer, screenwriter and boss.

I know a little about everything, and I'm not a fool fooling around.

After graduating from college, Li Dan first went to the south from his hometown in Inner Mongolia to do media work, and later went to an advertising company to write a copy.

A year later, he got a job and went to Shanghai because he had more money. He has written a manuscript for crosstalk performer Wang Zijian's program "Tonight's Talk Show after 80s" for five years.

After five years of recharge, he accumulated the ability and experience and began to plan the "Tucao Conference", but he didn't expect to be on fire at once.

From the talk show conference to the tucao conference, and then to create a "laughing fruit culture", he became the CEO of laughing fruit culture, and his worth soared by more than one billion.

Statistics show that Li's shaking burden is the strongest in the audience, but as far as the ability to write paragraphs is concerned, no backstage screenwriter can do it.

He often laughs at himself as a "best-selling author". His book is not as popular as his program, but he is still willing to stick to it, laughing and saying that it can't be sold, while continuing to write.

You see, he never stopped trying.

He is more like an "active loser". He talked about laziness and sadness. He doesn't want to do anything, but he is very active. He knows exactly what he wants and tries to turn it into reality.

Li Dan once said these two words:

In this world, you only need to know two things:

First, the world doesn't need to study at all, and you are smart, so you can live well without hard work. People who can be happy even without money.

Second, it's definitely not you.

Most people have an illusion that they can't stand scrutiny, thinking that life will improve as long as they change their environment.

And people who can say such things can't understand the importance of hard work?

Why do we like to pretend that we don't work hard?

A Zhihu netizen answered anonymously:

Because you let others see your efforts, but you have no achievements, others will take you as a counterexample; If you do well in the exam but don't let others see your efforts, others will regard you as a myth.

In the final analysis, in fact, I am just afraid that my efforts will not be rewarded, and I am afraid of the cynicism of others. What I am more afraid of is only an evaluation of "I have worked hard".

I dare not say that I work hard, because I am afraid that my efforts will have no result and I will be called incompetent.

However, pretending not to work hard has an excuse for failure.

"I didn't review yesterday."

"I didn't prepare the information."

If they say so, even if you can't do it well, you won't be laughed at for incompetence. If you do well, others will think you are very powerful.

I'm not sure about the result, so I don't want to work hard, and I don't want to admit that I tried.

But is it really that terrible to try unsuccessfully?

People often say that life is a journey. Don't care about the destination, care about the scenery along the way.

The same is true of efforts. If you care too much about the results, it is difficult to see the true value of your efforts.

Zhihu has a hot issue: Why should people work hard when they live in the world?

The answers are all the same, all warm and inspiring, but one impressed me deeply:

I try to leave some room for myself in this cruel world.

There is a saying that there is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to love life after seeing the truth of life.

Yes, hard work may not have results, but no hard work must have no results.