The older leftover girl, nearly 30 years old, has no boyfriend yet, and her parents are urging her hard. What should I do?

Actually, this was the case for a beautiful girl I once knew. To be honest, girls are most afraid of other people asking this question. She will feel very uncomfortable and embarrassed.

You obviously don’t want to say it, but there are always people nagging in your ear: How old are you? You should get married soon. If it’s a little later, let alone the leftover man, you may not be able to find a second marriage man. The best. Parents will also make insinuations from time to time: The youngest daughter of Lao Wang's family next door is also married. She is now a grown-up. She has finally found the right person, and your Uncle Lao Wang doesn't have to worry anymore. ?Tease the cute little fat kid downstairs.

You just walked over and said: "Kid, you are so cute!" ?His mother pulled you over and whispered quietly in your ear: ?Find one quickly. Get married this year and give birth to a cute little boy like my son next year! ?You will suddenly feel very irritable and unwilling to speak or listen to these things or from people who really care about you, or who may actually want to secretly see your jokes. But, after all, you will have to face this matter sooner or later! What to do? I personally suggest that you communicate effectively with your parents in a timely manner.

Find a suitable time to calm down with your parents and have a good chat about your thoughts on marriage and your plans for future life. If you really can't find it for a long time, how should you face single life? Tell your parents that you understand the importance of this matter to you, and that your parents want you to have a good destination in the future, to be taken care of by people who love you, and to have a good man to accompany you. However, the more important something is, the less anxious it is.

Love is something that can only be encountered but cannot be sought. It is not just buying groceries and buying them after bargaining. In addition to fighting for love, love is more of a kind of fate. If you marry just for the sake of getting married, and you are anxious to get married, but in the end, you don't meet the right person, but end up in a mess, and you end up getting divorced, isn't it not worth the gain? It's better to think carefully about what kind of person you want to marry, and then ask for advice. To be honest, human youth is really too short, so short that it passes before you can fully grasp it.

Since life is short and time is precious, why do we have to waste it dreaming about waiting for our beloved Prince Charming to come? What's more, there are really not many prince charmings. Maybe you are just waiting for Tang Seng, and by then it will be too late to regret. Therefore, I personally suggest that you can really find your significant other through blind dates and participating in more social activities.

The relatives and friends around you, including colleagues, are all matchmakers who can help you get to know boys quickly. Don't feel shy. Men can find their partners through blind dates, and we women can do the same. Don't be afraid of feeling embarrassed or embarrassed. No matter which method you use, as long as you can find the right partner, it's fate. Especially the elderly are very enthusiastic and willing to help young people make connections.

When you have free time, you can participate in some activities in the same city, make online appointments for mountain climbing, volunteer, singles groups in the same city, etc., which can help you quickly get to know a group of boys. However, you should keep your eyes open online to avoid being deceived. But I don’t rule out finding the right person, because there are several couples I know who met online, fell in love, and got married, and they are living quite well. What should you do if you still can't find the other half in your heart through various channels?

Then you have to sort yourself out again. What is it that I didn't do well enough that led to me not having a partner at this age? Is it because I have too much ambition and too little ambition, or because my goals are not clear and I don’t know what kind of person to look for, or I am too picky and pursue too much perfection. These are all issues you need to consider. If you feel that you are not good enough in some aspect and have some shortcomings, and you are willing to correct them, then change yourself and give it a try.

If you think you have no problem, but you just want to find a sweetheart of your own choice, then you also need to think about the consequences, maybe you really have to be single for the rest of your life. As long as you don't regret it, then it doesn't matter. Everyone has their own preferences for carrots and vegetables, and no one can control your life or gossip about you. Of course, your psychological quality must be strong enough.

Love and marriage are your own. How you want to live is also your own way of living. Don't be easily influenced by others. Love is always in short supply. If you get married in a hurry against your will, you will be the one hurting yourself in the end. You can marry if you love, but if you don’t love, please be careful! However, I hope every girl can find a man who loves her and spends her life!