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How to change introverted personality?

Hello, your question seems to be two: first, you are worried about your introversion; Second, they feel inferior and unwilling to communicate with others.

First, let's talk about introversion. In fact, many people are introverted. Maybe after reading what I say below, you will have a new understanding of personality.

There is a word in psychology called personality. The "personality" here is different from the well-known "personality". It has no moral essence. Psychological personality includes two factors: temperament and personality.

People generally have four temperament types:

Gary-this kind of person is straightforward, enthusiastic and grumpy.

Bloody-this kind of person is lively, agile and sociable.

Mucus-This kind of person is methodical and down to earth.

Depression-this kind of person is sensitive and witty, cautious and slow, and loves to be alone.

People's personality can be divided into introverted personality and extroverted personality. Generally speaking, choleric and sanguine people are extroverted. People with mucus and depression are mostly introverted. There is no difference between a person's temperament type and personality, so we don't need to change other people's personality. Compared with extroverts, introverts are more introverted, more stable, more thoughtful, more thoughtful and far-sighted, which leads to many great men who can do something. Here are some examples:

Performers: Tony Leung Chiu Wai, Stephen Chow, Jay Chou.

Entrepreneurs: Bill Gates, (CEO of Baidu), University Yu.

Political strategists: Deng Xiaoping, Napoleon, Su Yu, Wei Qing.

Celebrities in sports: Kobe Bryant, Yao Ming, McGrady, Wade, Yi Jianlian, Duncan, Stoudemire, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, Jordan as a child, George Gwen, Gasol, Ben Wallace, Wang, Zidane and Guo Jingjing.

Others: Beethoven, Einstein, Chen Jingrun, Nobel, Lu Xun, Li Qingzhao, Kafka.

Introverts may have a "cold spot" when they meet strangers. In this case, you don't have to care, because the communication between people is not necessarily just language communication. As long as you maintain a confident, steady and friendly attitude, you will have good interpersonal relationships.

Secondly, let's talk about the problem of inferiority. Everyone has an inferiority complex. In the vast universe and everything in the world, human beings are very small. It is precisely because of people's inferiority that people can overcome blind arrogance, clearly understand themselves and the world around them, and maintain their awe of the nature of the universe. Of course, excessive inferiority will affect a person's mood and personality. So people must have some confidence. When you have enough self-confidence, you will have different views on external things.

So how can we live more and more confidently? I have several suggestions here: people with excessive self-abasement judge themselves according to other people's comments, fearing that others will have bad comments. A confident person trusts his own judgment and repeats his successful experience. Think back, what have you done successfully in the past? For example, was there a time when you were in a panic and still finished what you had to do? How did you achieve such success at that time? What are your feelings and experiences when you are successful? Keep these methods, feelings and experiences, and you will continue to succeed and become more confident.

I wish you success step by step!