The speaker is not intentional to the listener. How do you face jokes that others don't mean to hurt you?

I don't care what he said on the surface, but I care in my heart. I will draw a cross for him silently in my heart, and I will take the initiative to stay away from him and keep my distance from him in the future. I will tell my friends around me about my grievances and let them comfort and encourage me.

1, I am calm on the surface, but I am really angry and angry inside. When someone plays an inappropriate joke on me, I won't show my anger directly, because I think it will make people feel that I am too stingy and have no stomach, and maybe the other person deliberately said this just to make me angry, so I won't do what he wants.

I'll act like I don't care about anything and say it in a joking tone. You're going a little too far, aren't you? . If the other party overhears this sentence, it will converge a little. If the other person hears my warning, or makes fun of me again and again, I will not hesitate to ask him directly, and I will add when I see the other person angry. I'm just kidding. You won't be angry, will you? .

I will draw him a big cross in my mind, and I will take the initiative to stay away from him and ignore him in the future. A leopard can't change its spots.

Once the other person embarrasses you, there will be another time, so be sure to stay away from such people who have bad intentions and don't know how to measure. So if the other person embarrasses me by joking, I will never have any trouble with him again. I will remember what he did to me, and I will stay away from him, ignore him and neglect him, so that people who do not know how to be considerate and empathetic will not be liked and respected by others.

I will tell my trusted friend and spit him out together. When I am hurt by other people's untimely jokes, I will cry to my friends about my unhappiness, and then my friends will stand by and encourage me and spit on him with me. After vomiting, I feel much more comfortable.

So when we are hurt by other people's jokes, never doubt our own strength. This is not our personal problem, so don't punish yourself. We should stay away from these strange people who make us unhappy and uncomfortable.