Why are children now poor in self-reliance? What is the reason?

Nowadays, children's self-reliance ability is poor because parents love their children too much. Now that living conditions are good and the family is rich, parents lack the correct concept of parenting and don't know how to raise their children. Give the best in life, not only don't make noise, don't educate children, but even spoil them. I don't want to lay a finger on my child, and I don't want others to lay a finger on me.

In this case, the child is spoiled and allowed to grow horizontally. Lack of frustration education, lack of independent consciousness.

The seedlings cultivated in the greenhouse can't see the wind and rain.

With the development of science and technology, society has made great progress, and the economic conditions of urban and rural people have become rich. Now that children have been going to school for a long time, the opportunity to participate in social employment has been postponed a lot, which should be a good thing. In the past, every family had many children, and few children in rural areas were able to transfer to rural areas to participate in farming and breeding after attending high school. They have to rely on their own efforts to get married and start a business. Children in the city are not much different. Even after graduating from high school, most of them take over employment with their parents' work units. Many of them rely on various interpersonal relationships to participate in their work, and almost all rely on their personal ability to get married and start a business. Now the social environment has changed, the income of high school graduates from part-time jobs is not ideal, and the income of college graduates is ok. Some children do not consider taking part in employment when they are studying for a doctorate. Children's daily chores are mostly solved by their families, but their self-care ability has improved a lot. Most of them get actively sponsored by their relatives and elders when they get married. The adults have worked hard and the children are much happier.

You can't say that. Every era has its own characteristics. It can only be said that the proportion of poor self-reliance is higher than before. This is mainly because the family planning policy has been implemented for more than 30 years, encouraging a couple to have only one child. In this way, at least two generations (post-80s, post-90s, post-80s, 2000, 20 10) were spoiled, and most of them were married by their parents or even grandparents before entering the society. Occasionally, it is normal and understandable that some people lack social experience after entering the society. After a while, it will mature and stand on its own feet. Look at the performance of those anti-epidemic backbones after the Wuhan epidemic. It's okay.

There are many only children and they are spoiled. It is good to spend as much as you need for a thirsty life and shirk it when you encounter difficulties. Without the hardships in life, it is difficult to face difficulties and fight bravely on the road ahead. The goal of exercising one's thoughts and efforts is to cultivate education in schools.

Those who have fewer children are expensive, and two generations are fond of them. Why? They are the result of family hope.

Because now this society is rich in materials and lacks survival crisis.

I've always been independent. Looking back, it does have something to do with family education. My mother taught me to brush my teeth and wash my face when I was two years old. I washed my hair, bathed myself and even washed my clothes in primary school. During the winter and summer vacations in junior high school, he also helped to dry the grain and corn at home.

When I was a child, I hated doing these things, especially in high school. My father had a holiday, and I was annoyed. I said that other people's children would only be responsible for eating when they were ready. My parents said that teaching you these things doesn't mean you have to do them. At first, I planted and cut rice in my hometown. What can I do with a teenage baby? But I was asked to do it because I wanted to exercise myself. Later, I was asked to cook, because I thought that even if I lived by myself or married to my husband's family, I wouldn't be ignorant and laughed at. In my parents' words, I said: You can be poor, but you have to know something.

So I'll make it myself. Although I don't know many tricks, I can cook by myself. Although I don't understand many hard dishes, I can wash them by hand and know bask in the quilt, but I will also rely on the washing machine and change the light bulb myself, although I haven't changed them several times.

Junior high school, senior high school and university are all on campus. Many parents worry that the campus is unsafe and unsanitary, and that their children are hard. I don't deny these concerns, but as far as I'm concerned, living on campus can greatly exercise our independence.

There is also the doting of parents. I have met many students who live on campus for the first time before, especially when I am an adult in college. They can't change their own sheets, wash their own clothes and clear their own tables, because their parents help them at home, and some people even bring meals to their beds. It's one thing to like pets, but another to spoil them.

Times have changed, the living environment and economic conditions have improved, and the ability to live independently has decreased, which is one of the reasons why children's independence has been greatly reduced.

Nowadays, children are poor in self-reliance. Everyone has been used to it since childhood. They don't have to do anything. Even if they are full and fed, they should think it over first. They have never been allowed to share some life and labor. They have long decided to treat their children as little emperors, and they have no independence when they grow up.