What should I do if I encounter embarrassing things?

Question 1: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? Everyone will encounter some embarrassing things in life, but how to deal with embarrassment, whether to face it calmly and resolve it, or to panic and let it spread.

A long time ago, when I was shopping with my friends, an elder sister came face to face. Sister looks solemn. After she went to her friend, she whispered a few words to her friend, who immediately blushed. It turned out that the zipper in front of my friend's pants was not zipped, and my kind elder sister found it. Before my friend zipped up, I thought she met an acquaintance.

Women are very hard. In addition to pregnancy and lactation, I will be pestered by "good friends" for several days every month, and sometimes "good friends" are not punctual. Don't come when you should come, come when you shouldn't, and sometimes come a lot, which makes people unprepared. Once some of our old classmates went to have tea, and she sat next to me. At that time, her face was not very good, and her body seemed to be uncomfortable. After chatting for a while, she went to the bathroom. After she left, I reached out and helped her to the stool where she had sat. As a result, I felt something was wrong. I raised my bloody hand and her "good friend" ran out. After she came out of the bathroom, her hand was behind her back, and she said something was wrong and left first.

My memory is not too bad, but I often mistake people for others. It is common that people who have met many times can't name each other, but people who don't know each other call each other acquaintances several times. These are nothing. The most embarrassing thing is that people I know don't know me. When I greeted him (her), he (she) showed a surprised expression, and I couldn't call him (her). After several such experiences, I met someone I didn't know very well, or when I wasn't sure that the other person knew me, I stopped saying hello and looked at each other with a smile. If he (she) knows me, my smile will be taken as a greeting. If he (she) doesn't recognize me, he (she) will think that I am in a good mood and smile when I walk, so it won't be because others don't.

I met my new neighbor downstairs in the elevator two days ago, a woman in her thirties. That day, she was dressed in fashion, dressed in black, with a long skirt and shorts (cropped trousers), a pair of high heels and a fashionable soft bag on her back. When she got into the elevator, she looked at the others as if there was no one else in the elevator. As soon as she got into the elevator, she stood in front of me. At that time, there were only two of us in the elevator, but I looked at her fashionable back and laughed to myself. There is a label under her collar, and she is wearing a new one. Although we never say hello, and I am not a person who likes to be in charge, I patted her and told her that the label on her clothes was still hanging outside. She put it in her clothes immediately after hearing the news, and then said shyly that she forgot to take it off.

Awkward things in life often happen inadvertently. When embarrassment appears, you don't have to panic. Maybe others haven't noticed. Even if you have been noticed to make a fool of yourself, you should act as if nothing has happened and take remedial measures quickly. Otherwise, it will only make matters worse, attract more people's attention and expand the embarrassment.

Question 2: What should I do when I am embarrassed? Ten rules for dealing with embarrassment.

Embarrassment can happen to anyone? What should you do when you meet a friend? If you don't know, please read the following article.

1. You can blush, but you can't be flustered;

Calm down, calm down again. When embarrassment suddenly appears, instant blushing is inevitable, but don't panic. That doesn't help, and it's easy to make others feel weak.

2. Don't make excuses easily. The sooner you admit your mistake, the easier it is to be forgiven.

Laugh at yourself

Since the embarrassing situation is inevitable, we should show enough courage to face the reality and even directly challenge the embarrassment.

4. improvise. Turn embarrassing moments into opportunities for self-promotion;

Being good at coping with situations can not only make embarrassment less embarrassing, but also provide rare opportunities for self-expression. Li Jun has always been an unknown member of the company. When introducing the company leader to the newcomer, he mispronounced the name of the company general manager. At that time, the scene was quiet and abnormal, and the general manager was unhappy. When he realized this, he immediately turned to introduce himself, and then added: The leader of our company has never been arrogant, but in this company, nothing can be wrong except the name of the leader. The tense scene suddenly eased.

5. Play the fool and put the tangible dilemma in the intangible ignorance;

This is a brazen panacea. It is easy to get rid of the influence of embarrassment. Everyone knows that fools are always laughed at, but there is never an embarrassing moment, because fools have nothing new and he doesn't care. Although we don't really want to be fools, what's wrong with taking some special methods to get out of danger and solve difficulties in special times?

6. Evacuate the scene quickly;

If you can't afford to hide, this is the best policy. If you really don't have the courage and ability to cope with the embarrassment, your best choice is to leave the scene as soon as possible. For people who are naturally timid but extremely sensitive, it is really wonderful to foresee the possibility of embarrassment in advance, or to leave at the first sign of embarrassment. No matter how big the palm force is, it is just a gust of wind, without a stressed face.

7. Turn disadvantages into advantages;

Advantages and disadvantages are always relative. As long as the key points are found, it is not impossible to turn disadvantages into advantages. For a female secretary who just started working, what could be more embarrassing than having two letters sent to the wrong address in the first letter after work? However, Miss Liu, 24, immediately called the customer to apologize after learning the situation, and called the customer all day after the customer refused, which finally touched the other party. These two customers also learned about her serious work attitude through this incident, and will always contact the company's business through her in the future.

8. Transfer embarrassment;

There is a so-called pain transfer method in medicine. When an unconquerable pain is replaced by another pain that is easier to conquer, the former pain often loses its original pain under the influence of the latter. This method is also used for self-regulation in embarrassing moments. Of course, there is also a form of transferring embarrassment, that is, transferring embarrassment to onlookers, but it must be noted that the embarrassment you transfer should be an opportunity for good jokes.

9. Pretend to be psychologically fragile;

People generally sympathize with the weak, and you should immediately overreact at an embarrassing moment, which can be remorse or pain. In short, you must make others look psychologically fragile, as if what just happened has hurt your self-esteem excessively. Under normal circumstances, people will definitely stop chasing you after seeing your tragic situation, and the embarrassment will go away.

10. Give a strong counterattack;

This is the most cautious way to deal with embarrassment. He must first consider the identity of the object, followed by the environment, and then the strength of the counterattack. Because embarrassment itself is not a surprising problem, but a mistake at best, you must find out what your purpose is before you decide to fight back. If the result of counterattack is to free yourself and hurt others, it is best to give up; If the result of the counterattack is happy, you might as well give it a try. This result directly reflects the parties' understanding of each other and their accurate grasp of the counterattack. There is only one purpose: self-interest does not harm others.

In life, you may be in an awkward position. What should you do if you are embarrassed? Let's first analyze the reasons for this scene.

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Question 3: I will be particularly nervous when I encounter embarrassing things. What happened? 50 points. This happens to everyone. The more I think about it, the more embarrassed I am. As long as you don't think about it, things will pass. If you are nervous, take a deep breath and slowly calm yourself down.

Question 4: What will you do if you encounter embarrassing things? On one occasion, the most embarrassing thing for both sides is that someone's intentional or unintentional words and actions have caused a silence in the communication field, and everyone is at a loss what to say and do, just like our experience: rubbing hands, tossing their legs, turning their heads upside down and racking their brains, just can't get rid of this situation. This is embarrassing. Maybe it's because you are frank and outspoken, maybe you have ulterior motives, deliberately make things difficult for others, maybe your background is different from others, maybe you are born a person who is not good at talking, but that's not the reason why you make things difficult for others. Maybe you are a selfish person at heart, you never give in to others, and you refuse to stand in others' position, so it is easy for you to create an embarrassing situation. Of course, on various occasions, you may also come from actions similar to yours, humiliating others and embarrassing you. In this case, you will also think about how to get rid of this embarrassing situation and let yourself behave calmly. A diplomat once attended an international dance, and the miss America who danced with him suddenly asked him, do you like Miss China or Miss America? This question is really difficult to answer. If you like Miss China, you will immediately offend Miss America. If you like Miss America, it's against your will, and it's demeaning to women in China. I like everyone who likes me, whether Miss China or Miss America. This answer is witty and flexible, which avoids my own embarrassment and the embarrassment caused by saying that I don't like Miss America. Some people in life like to give others problems and try to make others embarrassed and embarrassed. The son of Wang Anshi, a politician in the Northern Song Dynasty, was very clever when he was young. A guest wants to give him a hard time. Knowing that he didn't know the roe and the deer in the same cage, he deliberately asked him, "Which is the roe and which is the deer?" Wang Anshi's son Wang calmly replied, "The deer is next to the roe, and the roe is next to the deer." Wang Zhiwei's answer freed himself from the embarrassing situation that the host and guests might have. People are social people and need to socialize, but in social situations, language and behavior often lead to embarrassing scenes. For example, when chatting, people often make the mistake of talking about each other's work as soon as they meet, talking about surgery with doctors, talking about politics with politicians, talking about teaching with teachers and talking about business with businessmen, which seems very "natural". But these people do the same thing all year round, and some people may be having a headache for their jobs. When you talk to them about these things, on the surface, they hum and haw to perfunctory you, but in their hearts, they may regard you as a "boring person" and don't want to say another word to you. Former US President Kennedy hates talking about politics with others. In addition, it is embarrassing to talk about how much money you have earned in chat. Money has become a yardstick to measure this social value. People who earn more money are naturally willing to boast about their monthly income, but for those who earn less money, this is an embarrassing moment: he really doesn't want to talk about it because it makes him embarrassed. Of course, it is also a very embarrassing moment for the parties to make the privacy of someone present public into a joke. There are many people in society who always base their happiness on the suffering of others. Diego, a famous football player? Diego maradona scored a controversial goal against England, which was later called "The Hand of God". When many disgruntled people asked diego maradona if the ball was a handball or a header, diego maradona tactfully replied: "The handball is half Diego's and the header is half diego maradona's." If he admits handball, the referee will be embarrassed. If he refuses to admit it and loses his general demeanor, it will be embarrassing. His answer can be described as level. When people who are good at chatting talk about their own experiences, they think that the reason why they can create a warm atmosphere in conversation is not because they know more than others, or have a higher tone than others, or are best at telling jokes, or know how to "control" the direction of conversation. The secret of chatting is that you must first relax your conversation attitude, and then try to find out the topic that the other person likes and try to make the other person talk. As for you, you might as well act interested and listen carefully. 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Question 5: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? Pretend nothing happened, just smile.

Question 6: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? I don't pay attention to embarrassment

Sometimes, it's normal to be embarrassed. If you pay too much attention, you will always feel very uneasy. If you don't think it's something worthy of attention, you can keep calm. So when you are embarrassed, try to relax yourself, stay away from the embarrassing situation and divert your spirit and attention.

Speak appropriately.

Embarrassment is often caused by improper words, embarrassing yourself and others, and thus suffering from cold reception. So don't be too careless when you talk or do things, it will cause losses to others and make others regret it.

Say something valuable.

Everyone will say the wrong thing sometimes. Sometimes when you speak without thinking, it's easy for disaster to come out of your mouth. In order to prevent this from happening, you must think twice before you speak. Instead of jabbering a bunch of stupid things, it is better to say something valuable leisurely so as not to hurt people.

Don't talk nonsense about private affairs.

Remember, private affairs can't be said casually, only with people you trust. In this way, you don't have to worry, others will make fun of you when they know. Sometimes talking to others about private affairs is easy to be caught and unsafe. Not only is it dangerous, but it will also bring trouble to others. Why talk about personal matters?

Learn to laugh at yourself

You can laugh at yourself when you are embarrassed. The more embarrassed you are, the more you value embarrassing things, and the more people will pay attention to your embarrassment. You are even more at a loss. If you need to admit your mistake yourself, admit it at once. If you have the initiative, it won't be too embarrassing.

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Control one's reaction

In the face of embarrassment, the key is not to get angry. Don't show that you are aware of being teased. Pretend you don't know anything, pretend you don't care. You don't care about anything, can others still laugh? It's funny that people like to ridicule others.

I hope to adopt.

Question 7: What should I do if I encounter something particularly embarrassing? Embarrassed because you value yourself too much? In fact, not many people remember most of your embarrassing things, except yourself. So if this embarrassing thing makes you feel bad, you have to tell yourself that I'm not that conspicuous?

Question 8: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? What your cousin said is also reasonable. There is a way to vent your emotions. Of course, the circle of friends is also one kind, but it is not the best one. It is best to travel to nearby scenic spots or climb mountains. Hope to adopt?

Question 9: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? Embarrassment is embarrassment. Be willing to admit your embarrassment, and don't stand by when it is embarrassing. It's best to take the initiative to speak, explain your embarrassment to your partner, and remember to be kind and humorous.

Question 10: What should I do if I encounter something embarrassing? Accept it and look him in the eye.