My mother always said that I would be laughed at if I did this and that. People will call me stupid and rude. Why should I live what others think?

How can I put it? In fact, most mothers have this problem. When we were young, they liked to compare with other children. Maybe she just wants us to be as good as that child, but forgets that we will be jealous and sad. We are old enough to do our own thing, but she always wants to do something for us, but she doesn't know that we just want her to have a good rest and not be so tired. In fact, most of them are really thinking of us, but in the wrong way.