Why is your kindness trampled by others?

Helping others is everyone's noble virtue. Try to help others when they need help. Helping others is the instinct to accumulate virtue and do good. Some people are worthy of help, and some people are not necessarily worthy of help.

I remember when I was a child, there were frequent power outages at home. At that time, the draft was pumped by submersible pumps from the ground for a family to use. Without electricity, the draft was a problem. Whoever has a mechanical well killing, three or five families all take water from the mechanical well killing and store it in their own larger buckets.

There was a power outage, and I filled my big bucket with water. My neighbor's name was my aunt. She was busy with other things and asked me to fetch water for his family. I carried the first bucket of water for my aunt, but when I carried the second bucket of water, I was so tired that I gasped. There was water on the ground that I lost my balance and fell to the ground. All the water in the bucket was spilled on the ground, and the clothes on the ground were soaked with water, which made the whole body very embarrassed and embarrassed. My aunt laughed at my embarrassment when she saw that I didn't say anything comforting, as if I didn't do a good job for her.

At that time, I could find reasons to refuse something like this. Why didn't it benefit me in the end, but I was laughed at? It was because my kindness had no bottom line at that time, and I wouldn't do what I could, which led to a joke and unnecessary embarrassment.

Now some people are worthy of help, while others are exempted. Why is your kindness trampled on by others at will is because you won't refuse or do what you can, which will cause unnecessary trouble.

moderation is the best choice.