Have you ever been forced to get married as you get older? How to deal with all kinds of marriage urging skillfully?

First, some experiences and occasions of urging marriage:

1. "Care" at family gatherings: At family gatherings, elders always ask awkward questions, such as "When will you get married?" "Don't you have a boyfriend?" Wait a minute. This concern will make you feel very uncomfortable.

2. Parents' worries: Parents always think that children should get married as soon as possible, because they think that only in this way can they have a stable family and future. They will keep nagging in your ear to express their worries and anxieties.

3. Comparison of relatives and friends: Sometimes, when the children of relatives and friends are married, they may compare their children with you and think that you should get married as early as they do.

4. Social pressure: In some societies, marriage is a cultural tradition. If you are not married, you may be discriminated and pressured by society.

Second, you can deal with the situation of urging marriage in this way:

1. Understand their position: Try to understand why the elders urged marriage. They may be concerned about your future, or they may be influenced by traditional ideas. After understanding their position, you may be more patient with their urging.

2. Be clear about your thoughts: In the face of urging marriage, be clear about your thoughts and plans. If you are not ready to get married, you can tell them frankly your thoughts and plans, and let them know that you are not idle or have problems.

3. Give a positive response: don't be too negative or contradictory in the face of urging marriage. You can give a positive response, such as "I know you care about me, but I'm not ready" or "I'm thinking about it, but it takes some time".

4. Change the subject: If you think this topic makes you uncomfortable, you can try to change the subject. For example, you can ask each other about their recent situation, or say something interesting to make the atmosphere more relaxed and happy.

5. Stay calm and confident: Stay calm and confident in the face of urging marriage. Don't let their urging affect your mood and confidence. Believe that you can make the right decision, and don't change your lifestyle because of other people's opinions.

In short, in the face of urging marriage, we should remain calm and confident, be clear about our thoughts and plans, give a positive response, and maintain a pleasant and relaxed atmosphere.