After xiren and Jia Baoyu stole the exam, why didn't they get pregnant?

Xiren used to be the maid beside the old lady, but later she took care of Jia Baoyu separately and became the big maid beside Jia Baoyu. Their relationship is better than others. Their first attempt was after Jia Baoyu fell asleep.

On the same day, Jia Baoyu and Jia Mu went to Ningguo House for dinner. At noon, Jia Baoyu was sleepy, and Qin Keqing volunteered to take care of his lunch break. After Jia Baoyu's ordeal, they finally went to Qin Keqing's room. In Qin Keqing's room, Jia Baoyu felt happy and soon fell asleep. He also had a dream, which helped Jia Baoyu open the door to a new world. In the evening, xiren took a pair of trousers while others were not looking, and asked Jia Baoyu what dream he had. Jia Baoyu told xiren everything in his dream. Aroma hid her face and left, which stirred Jia Baoyu's heart even more. On a whim, he took xiren to steal a try. At this time, Jia Baoyu was about ten years old.

After that, the two kept this relationship privately until the first two years of the raid on the Grand View Garden. At that time, Aroma asked Jia Baoyu how to sleep at night, because Qingwen had moved out, and Jia Baoyu answered at random. At that time, the author explained that xiren had become more and more self-respecting because she was valued by Mrs. Wang, so she had never been close to Jia Baoyu for a year or two.

This year, Lin Daiyu is sixteen or seventeen, and Jia Baoyu is seventeen or eighteen. According to the narrative in the book, Jia Baoyu broke off contact with Aaron when he was fifteen or sixteen years old, which means that the time span from Jia Baoyu and Aaron's first attempt to Aaron's unilateral temporary termination of this relationship is about six or seven years.

Other girls who are similar to xiren are not pregnant. The author gives sufficient and key reasons, but xiren is not here, which shows that the reason why xiren is not pregnant is not objective, but subjective. What are the subjective reasons? Customers don't want it themselves. This party is definitely not Jia Baoyu, and he certainly doesn't know much about it and doesn't care, so it can only be that Xiren doesn't want it. The reason why xiren secretly tried with Baoyu was actually a means of making a living.

According to the traditional view of respecting the old and loving the young, the eldest son is generally the heir to the family property. The children born to a wife are born out of the office, and the children born to concubines are born out of the office. If concubines are older than official positions, there will be contradictions in family property inheritance. Feudal ethics, official position is proud.

Xue Baochai is bent on marrying Baoyu and naturally knows these rules. Similarly, Xiren knows these rules. Therefore, no matter how she and Baoyu associate, they dare not get pregnant and have children. Especially after Mrs. Wang gave her her birthright, after eating the reassurance in her heart, she deliberately stayed away from Baoyu to avoid the situation.

Maids who wait on their masters in person, such as xiren, and even those who are obviously "outsiders", must have been told about contraceptive methods. The sixth time, I said that xiren was old and had the same personnel, and she would never teach herself. Since someone teaches gender knowledge, including contraceptive methods! Some are effective, such as mercury and musk contraception. For example, cleaning up contraceptives afterwards, or taking some emergency contraceptives. In fact, in clinical medicine, by the Ming and Qing Dynasties, some physiological contraceptive measures had been explored. It is not easy to get pregnant unexpectedly, especially when contact is limited and both sides try their best to avoid it.