Seeing the dynamics of your circle of friends, do people who ask you privately what's wrong really care about you or are they curious?

Someone who really cares about you. My current boss is a man who looks big and thick, but he is also coarse and fine. If he was really a lout, he couldn't have made such a big career from scratch. In my second year in the company, my performance was not good. I almost hit the bottom. When I was on a business trip, I accidentally dropped my mobile phone into the washbasin when I got up in the morning to wash, and it wouldn't turn on. The information in the mobile phone is so important that I have to take it to repair it. There was a spare machine that was too stuck, so I sent a circle of friends and said with a crying expression, "It's completely abolished".

Less than an hour after the circle of friends was sent out, the boss called to ask me what happened and what happened on the road. I didn't react at that time, so I told my boss that it was okay. The boss said at this moment that he looked at my circle of friends and thought something had happened to me, so he called to ask. I am embarrassed to tell my boss that both mobile phones are broken, which affects normal work communication. The boss angrily asked me to buy another one. Buy whatever you want before 3000 yuan, and go back to him for reimbursement.

People who watch your jokes. In real life, people around you really know people but don't know faces. Some people really treat you as a friend, while others stab you in the back and laugh at you. My friend's wife was pregnant for three months, and the child was hopeless and miscarried. That night, he sent a circle of friends, "I have been trying to do well, but the result is like this. Is this God's punishment for me? " The friend's original intention was that he worked too hard and his wife had little time to take care of him during pregnancy, so he tried to make up for it, but in the end he didn't leave the children, thinking it was God's punishment. I feel very guilty.

The next day, a colleague who usually looks nice called him early and asked him what was wrong. His words showed great concern and many words of comfort. Surprisingly, when this person arrived at the company, he told other colleagues that XXX's child had a miscarriage, because he usually did all the bad things, and God couldn't bear to take the child away, so he deserved it. Later, these words reached the ears of friends and beat him up in front of the office leaders. The good intention stabbed the knife in the back, and the friend had no choice but to move his hand.