What should the teacher do if the children in kindergarten are disobedient?

There are really many things that preschool teachers have to do. We can't just take care of each child's health, but also pay attention to each child's emotional problems and psychological trends. Some children are very well-behaved and sensible, and will obey the teacher's instructions. However, many children are too naughty. Not only are they not well-behaved and sensible, but they are also very willful and disobedient. Children cannot be scolded, let alone beaten or scolded, but they cannot be allowed to be willful and disobedient. So, when faced with disobedient children, how should kindergarten teachers provide correct education:

Understand the children’s “weaknesses”

Just because a child is disobedient does not mean that he is a bad person Children are just children with a somewhat willful or stubborn personality. I have dismissed many children in kindergarten. The more disobedient the children are, the more "weaknesses" they have. For example, their disobedience is just to attract your attention, or it is caused by some small inferiority complex. . Therefore, when a child is disobedient, you should carefully observe the child, understand the weaknesses in his character, and then take appropriate measures.

Don’t rush to reprimand or stop children from being “willful”

No matter how disobedient or willful children are, they are just babies. They do not have the thinking of adults, or in other words, they do not have the thinking of adults. With that kind of complicated thinking, the reason why children are disobedient is because they want to achieve a goal of their own but fail to achieve it, so children will behave disobediently. If you reprimand him at this time, he may only be temporarily obedient, but when you turn around, the child will insist on doing his own thing again. So you remember, you can stop the child's disobedient behavior, but don't rush to reprimand him.

Hold the child and ask him why he is disobedient

Even if you know the reason why the child is disobedient, you don’t have to say it directly. Sometimes children will play with their kindergarten teachers Some "little strategies" may be because the teacher ignores the children, or the teacher favors other children, or the children want to attract the attention of other children, etc., so they will find ways to attract attention to themselves, and then achieve their own goals. purpose. You don’t have to say it out loud, just hold the child in your arms, ask him why he is disobedient, and then tell the child your analysis. At this time, the child will usually lower his head and remain silent, which means that he has "submitted". His purpose was achieved because he did get your attention.

Give the children a "mark" for their disobedience

This can be regarded as a small punishment for the disobedient children. This approach is also to let the children understand that every one of their actions , everyone must be responsible for themselves, whether they are adults or children. He was disobedient and made a small mistake. The teacher can choose to forgive and understand, but it does not mean that he will not accept the punishment for that mistake. You can choose to give the child a small black star, and then tell him that if he behaves well, he will immediately change it to a beautiful color star. He may appear disapproving, or may act very uneasy, but no matter what, he will definitely feel uneasy and nervous, and he will definitely behave well.