In addition to physical violence, how can you tell if you are being abused domestically?

There are many forms of domestic violence, not just physical violence. The following forms of violence also indicate that you are suffering from domestic violence.

01. Verbal violence

Verbal violence is a more common form of violence besides physical violence. One party who engages in verbal violence will often use words to attack the other party, insult and abuse the other party. No matter what you do, it is incorrect in the eyes of the other person, and he will always try his best to find reasons to scold you.

My cousin has had this bad experience before. Her husband wanted to divorce her but had no good reason, so he always troubled his cousin over trivial matters. Then he "took advantage of it" and said some unpleasant and hurtful words to his cousin. In the end, the cousin couldn't bear it anymore, and the two divorced.

The lethality of verbal violence is no worse than physical violence, and it will have a huge impact on our hearts. Some people may suffer from JS disorders or even Yiyu due to long-term verbal violence.

02. Emotional violence

Emotional indifference is the most unacceptable way of getting along in a marriage. If the other person ignores you for a long time, you will lose confidence in the relationship sooner or later. Relationships require two people to work together and work together. Without either party, it will be difficult to maintain it.

One of my relationships in college also ended up breaking up due to emotional violence. At that time, my ex-girlfriend had someone she liked and wanted to break up with me. But she felt that there was no legitimate reason, and she didn't want to take the responsibility on herself, so she chose to ignore me. As long as I send her messages, she basically chooses to ignore them. Even if I reply sometimes, it’s just a simple “hmm”.

03. Economic restrictions

In family life, it would be a very bad thing if the man restricted the woman’s finances, especially if the woman is a housewife. Women who are housewives have no financial income. If a man restricts your daily expenses at this time, it is equivalent to telling you that you must listen to him in life. You may not be able to live without him.

Some men always feel that the entire family is dependent on themselves, and the woman has no contribution to the family. Therefore, many small details in life will show disrespect or even contempt for women. There is an example around me. A female friend of mine quit her job to take care of the family after giving birth. However, the man not only did not appreciate the woman's efforts at all, he also felt that the woman was "freeloading", and their lives became a mess.

If you suffer from domestic violence, then we must not be timid. Speak out bravely and learn to use legal weapons to protect your legitimate rights and interests is the most correct choice for you.