My girlfriend likes to speak ill of me in front of my best friend. How can I dissuade her?

I don't think it's urgent to dissuade you. Just look at what your girlfriend and best friend say. If one day your girlfriend's best friend tells your girlfriend that your boyfriend is so close that he won't accompany you, my boyfriends will all fly from Yunnan to see me.

Then we can draw the following points from your girlfriend's best friend's words:

1, your girlfriend's best friend told your girlfriend about her boyfriend just to show off that she found a good boyfriend, and didn't mean to speak ill of you.

2. Don't ignore it just for showing off. You should show that you love your girlfriend, not be indifferent. Send some gifts to your girlfriend from time to time so that she can show off.

The most important thing is to spend more time with your girlfriend. If you are in a different place, you can agree when to meet. Remember to bring gifts. Don't go there empty-handed Gifts should not be expensive and meaningful.

4, you can't take it seriously, this is simply a pillow breeze. If you two are not strong, you can say goodbye. What you have to do now is to do it yourself. Do your best to express your love before your girlfriend's best friend says anything. The second is to tell your girlfriend about it directly. The second effect may not be very good, but it is better than nothing.

In fact, since they can be called girlfriends, I believe their feelings must be unusual. Since her girlfriends can say these words to her, they are not afraid of your girlfriend telling you, which shows that this is a real problem.

Of course, it is also possible that two people are joking. Since your female ticket can tell you, at least it shows that she doesn't care very much, otherwise she will be in the mood to talk to you, but she will be questioned or "sentenced" after searching for exact information.

1, the first thing you have to do is to be aboveboard. As long as you have a clear conscience, any gossip is shady.

2. Do these problems really exist? If so, please correct it immediately. If it is an unreasonable reason, don't take it to heart.

You can also take the initiative to get in touch with your girlfriend's best friend. One is to know more about your girlfriend, and the other is to have conflicts in the future. She will mediate and will not fight alone. Of course, the most important thing is to find out the problem and give her a reason to speak ill of you. I believe as long as you are sincere, she will accept it.