My boyfriend always mentions my ex when he quarrels. What kind of mentality should I have compared with my predecessor?

Your boyfriend is doing something wrong. Why does he always take office early when quarreling? Isn't this adding fuel to the fire? This is completely bad behavior. You should stop him at once and make him stop talking. If he doesn't change, then you should take urgent measures to get rid of his bad habit directly, because I think if you don't get rid of this bad habit, there will be great problems in your relationship one day.

I hate people comparing me with others, whether friends, family or lovers. If he always compares me with his predecessor, then I should just turn around and let him pursue his predecessor again. Isn't his predecessor very good in his mind? And let him get along with his predecessor. I was unhappy when I was with him. He thought I was not as good as his predecessor.

If you really love your boyfriend, then you should pay attention to this problem, supervise him and let him get rid of it. In the future, two people will always quarrel over various predecessors. In this case, after a long time, their hearts will become very tired. His predecessor always appears in your love. I don't think any girl will be willing to change it. In any case, you must firmly deny his behavior.

If he doesn't change and always compares you with your predecessor, then I suggest you break up as soon as possible, so that you won't be reluctant to break up when you are deeply in love, because if he keeps doing this, your relationship will definitely not go far, and short-term pain is better than long-term pain. Don't be reluctant when it's time to break up.