Why does letting women do housework cause many women to resent it?

What makes women dislike is not housework itself, but men and some women use various reasons to evade men's responsibility for housework, and put all housework on women, or dislike the backward thought that housework is a woman's bounden duty.

Housework, housework, housework. Doing housework is the responsibility of every family member. No gender is born to undertake all housework, and no gender is born to avoid all housework. Both men and women have equal responsibilities in the family.

In a family of two people, the responsibilities of the family can be roughly divided into the responsibility of making money to support the family and the responsibility of undertaking housework. Then when two people are responsible for making money to support their families, both of them are responsible for housework. In some families, the responsibility of making money to support the family is entirely borne by one party, so the housework responsibility of this family can be borne by the other party.

Of course, the reality can't be as perfect as 55 points, and one party is bound to take on more housework or support the family. But I have always thought that "whoever earns more money is the boss" should not be used to measure the amount of housework, which is almost a way of money transaction. Instead, it should be "the party with relatively easy work undertakes more housework", which is a way to share housework with the other party. Both men and women.

Of course, there is also an ideal situation, that is, hire a nanny to do all the housework. However, unless there is a live-in nanny, there will still be some scattered housework that family members need to undertake, such as washing and storing personal clothes, changing bedding and so on. These scattered and difficult-to-quantify housework should be evenly distributed, and the relaxed party should bear more.