Song Dandan Ni Ping century reconciliation, jokes can really make people break off relations?

Joking can really ruin a relationship. If you say something inappropriate on an inappropriate occasion, then you think you are joking. As everyone knows, others think that you are hurting others for the second time. Tell me a joke that impressed me deeply.

First, tease the pain of others.

I once saw a story in the news: a couple gave birth to a child. When the child was born, there was a birthmark on his face. The color is not very dark, and the couple didn't care too much. They thought that the color of the birthmark would fade gradually until he grew up and disappeared. However, as the child grows up, the birthmark on his face has not disappeared, but the color of the birthmark has become more. When taking children out, people often stare at the birthmark on their faces. The child is still young and doesn't know anything, but as he grows up, he realizes that his face is different. Therefore, the whole family was very worried and took their children to the hospital for examination. The doctor told the child that the birthmark on his face can be removed by medical means, but the child is still young and the operation is too painful. It may take many operations to remove the birthmark on his face.

So the husband and wife decided not to go to kindergarten until the child was six years old. After treatment, he was sent directly to the first grade. A family of three went on a trip. There was a college girlfriend of a child's mother in that city, so they were invited to visit her. The couple bought a lot of gifts at home, but when they entered the college girlfriend's house of the child's mother, the child's mother deliberately said with a straight face. Who is this? You really look like a cat. Won't you come into my house? It was a joke, but it scared the child, so the child's father got angry, and the child's mother's college girlfriend said in surprise. That was a joke just now. As for it! Besides, does your child's face look like Xiaohua Mall? .

A joke in a large population may be a wound in a child's heart. They always think that children don't know anything, but they will keep it in mind and affect their lives.

Second, the talk show actor divorced

I forgot the name of that person, only the general content of what she said. The actress also married a talk show actor, but they were not happy after marriage. Can you imagine that no matter what you do, he can tell you jokes anytime and anywhere? Your experience left a deep impression on me. The actress said that once, she was hospitalized with gastroenteritis, and her husband told the story to a circle of friends and let the actress's father see it. Later, the actress's father communicated with the actress's husband and told him to stop making trouble and take good care of his wife, but her husband told her that you didn't say you couldn't praise you for anything. You are strong, and I believe you are still strong in this situation. ? Later, he really did what he said. The actress divorced him. The actress said with a smile that it was a burden, and I can imagine how sad she was.

You can joke, but it should be moderate and divided into occasions, otherwise it is not a joke, it is called low emotional intelligence.