I'm devastated. At marriageable age, I'm still single. I am also sad that my family is in a hurry. I'm really confused.

I am in the same situation as you. I didn't get married until I was 30. At first, I was confused. I am in a hurry at home. I just want to find a similar marriage. But marriage is a lifetime thing, and there is no way to talk about it. If I choose, I am not only responsible for myself, but also for my family. Personally, I don't recommend getting married for the sake of getting married.

Don't rush to find someone, no one is born to meet your requirements completely, making you feel that you love you very much. But if you have a good impression on him and are willing to get along with him, and give him more opportunities to get to know him, the small shortcomings can be completely changed.

In a word, we didn't meet what we liked, partly because fate didn't come, and partly because our psychological expectations were too high. Don't choose like a commodity. Try to understand from other people's point of view, in order to know whether the other person is the person you want. Finally, not only rational analysis, but also feelings, including the feeling of holding hands, hugging and kissing, will tell you whether that is what you want.