How to deal with the behavior of some relatives who seem to care about your family conflicts, but actually wait for jokes?

Deal with some relatives who seem to care about your family conflicts, but actually wait for jokes.

1, these people are likely to lack their own abilities, live at the bottom of society, live unhappy and narrow-minded. Therefore, when solving problems, we can't generalize. First of all, we should strive to improve our cultural quality, sympathize with their shortcomings, dislike them, and of course some people don't. There is no need to care too much.

Moreover, not all vitriol should be denied, but we should see if their starting point is good. If they want to make progress for you, you can forgive them.

2, meanness is an attack on the surface, but it is actually self-defense! It seems that you exaggerate your "bad", but in fact you can't adapt to your "good". Therefore, the villain is very pitiful, detrimental to others, annoying and disturbing; Therefore, be more tolerant of mean people. For those who "can't afford those mistakes", we should not only pity, but also ignore and understand, and then leave with an elegant smile. Happy people don't quarrel, because their hearts are warm, complete and peaceful.