Only after the divorce did I know that the so-called "pure" heterosexual friendship is deceptive. what do you think?

Is there pure friendship between men and women? Everyone may have his own answer to this question. In fact, it is nothing more than two results. One is that men and women don't value each other and can only be friends. The other is the so-called pure friendship, which will become qualitative in the end. A divorced woman gave her own answer to this question.

Xi Huang thinks she is different from other women. Sometimes she doesn't think she is a woman, especially when facing her boyfriend Tao Jun. She always thinks that there is no pure friendship between men and women, so people who lose their way while playing are impure.

From the beginning, it was impure, but between her and her boyfriend Tao Jun, it was impossible to cross a lifelong barrier. She enjoyed the friendship between herself and Tao Jun again and again, and laughed at those who were too worldly.

There is another person in Xi Huang's cynicism, that is, her husband is wise. Yingming knew that Huang had such a man's best friend before marrying Huang. At that time, Yingming didn't care too much, because he knew that Huang He had been studying together since elementary school, and they had gone through junior high school, high school and university together. If there is a feeling between them, he doesn't exist. How can Tao Jun give such an excellent woman as Xi Huang to herself?

However, since getting married, Yingming has gradually discovered that Huang He is like a family, and they have nothing to say. Tao Jun is really a man's best friend. At first, Yingming just thought that the so-called male best friend was just a good friend in his eyes, but Tao Jun's meticulous care for Xi Huang even made him jealous. Yingming and Huang Xi talked about their feelings.

Xi Huang always said that they had been friends since childhood, and each other's families regarded each other as their own children. Of course, their relationship is not generally good, and they will not be separated because of anyone's regard sb with special respect or misunderstanding. Xi Huang told Yingming not to be worldly like others, and he must understand the friendship between her and Tao Jun.

Wise though some unhappy, but also know that I really shouldn't be too jealous, he thinks Xi Huang is right, if there is anything between the two of them, it won't give other men the opportunity to marry Xi Huang. Xi Huang naturally enjoyed the care of her husband and the infinite care of her boyfriend Tao Jun.

However, sometimes, some things always happen so inexplicably. Once, Xi Huang and her husband Tao Jun quarreled over some trivial matters, and she slammed the door angrily. Every time something unpleasant happens, she first thinks of Tao Jun, and this time it's the same process. Desperately, she drove to Tao Jun's home, but Yingming seems to have got used to what she did.

Every time she slammed the door and left, he knew that his wife had gone to another man's house. This man's home seems to be the place where Xi Huang should live. Whenever he thinks so, he is always contradictory. He wondered if he was really narrow-minded and could not tolerate the existence of his wife and boyfriend. He is depressed sometimes. Should he be more confused or more serious?

Mingzhe knows that as a man, in order to save the feelings between him and his wife, he can't let his wife go to other men's houses to complain or vent their emotions every time they quarrel. After all, when I married her, I vowed to take good care of her, but every time the mood came, I always ignored her. He knows that if I tolerate her a little more, there won't be so many contradictions between them.

Wise is different from the past. He drove to Tao Jun's house, but when he pushed open the door of Yingming's house, he was dumbfounded. He saw his wife, Huang He, hugging each other tightly, disheveled and disheveled. Yingming tried to control his emotions and make himself rational again, but he couldn't do it at the moment.

He came to beg his wife to go home with a retrogressive purpose, but what he saw was such a scene. At this time, Huang He, who was paralyzed by alcohol, seemed to wake up instantly. They knew they had done something wrong, but unfortunately, they were just hit by Tao Jun, and the so-called pure friendship they had promised before was just a big joke in front of the wise at the moment, whether it was this misunderstanding or the previous affair.

In short, since then, the so-called friendship between Huang He has disappeared, and Yingming finally understands that his previous guesses and doubts are not groundless. Men sometimes have a sixth sense, which is no less than that of women in emotional issues.

Xi Huang knew she was wrong. She knew it was wise to love her husband, but she did something wrong in a confused situation. She knew that maybe in Tao Jun's eyes, even though she regarded him as a friend or best friend, as a man, Tao Jun always regarded Xi Huang as a woman, and nothing had happened before. Maybe it's just a matter of time. There may be other reasons. In short, Xi Huang knew that she had suffered a big loss this time. She lost her husband and the pure friendship she used to be proud of.