How can I comfort the children who shut themselves at home after failing the college entrance examination?

Many children will be very depressed if they don't get a satisfactory result after the college entrance examination, and even don't want to get in touch with other people, including their parents, so they lock themselves in their rooms and don't go home and eat all day and night. Parents are also very worried about this situation, fearing that something will happen to their children. In fact, this is also because children are too demanding of themselves, so when they can't get satisfactory results, children will be very depressed. There is no way to cheer up. At school, children's teachers will constantly instill in students that the college entrance examination is a very important turning point and a very important springboard.

As long as you pass the college entrance examination, the next life will be very easy. On the contrary, if you don't work hard to get good grades in the college entrance examination, it will be very bad. Many students will choose to work hard in the college entrance examination after listening to the teacher's words, and then get the results they want. However, there are also many students who usually get better grades, and their strength has declined because of the excessive tension in the college entrance examination. I feel different from the usual test results and will be very lost. In normal times, my teachers will like such students very much and feel very promising. But I didn't expect that after I got the college entrance examination results, I would surprise everyone and feel inferior.

And because the teacher's language infusion will make students feel that the college entrance examination is not good, then their future life is doomed to failure. At this time, parents can choose to enlighten their children slowly, or find some trustworthy friends to tell their children that the college entrance examination is only a turning point in their lives. Even if this turning point has not passed, it doesn't mean anything. Many children didn't get good grades in the college entrance examination, but their later life was still wonderful. It is not a college entrance examination that can determine your future destiny, but there is a more important thing at each stage. At this stage, the college entrance examination is more important.

After the college entrance examination, there are still many things to do. People will encounter all kinds of things, big and small, in their decades of life. Even if you don't do well in the college entrance examination, you can go to a bad school and study hard. They can go to a better school for graduate study and study their favorite major, but it takes a long time. If they are willing to bear hardships, it is also a good way to give children some examples. There are many people who are promoted from junior college to undergraduate, then from undergraduate to graduate, and then to doctoral students. Although the college entrance examination failed, it does not mean that they will fail in their later lives. Similarly, getting good grades in the college entrance examination does not mean that their future life will be smooth sailing.