The lower the cognitive level, the more argumentative.

In life, we often meet some unreasonable people pestering you. They are unreasonable and don't distinguish right from wrong. In today's parlance, they are called "the spirit of leverage".

In fact, the lower the cognitive level, the more people love to argue.

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The more incompetent people are, the more argumentative they are.

The fox found a vine covered with crystal clear and fragrant grapes.

The fox thought, this grape must be sweet and delicious.

But the tree is too high for the fox to reach. He tried to jump on it, but he still couldn't reach it.

After several attempts, the fox sweated and panted, "This grape is not ripe yet. It must be sour and not delicious! " "Then I went home dejectedly.

Han Yu said, "If you cheat others outside, you cheat their hearts inside."

Externally, deceive others; Internally, cheating.

Many times, we are like foxes. When we see what others have but we don't have it, our hearts are gone.

In order to make up the psychological gap and deceive myself, I think this thing is definitely not good.

When others are good-looking, they say that the vase has no strength.

When others get excellent grades, they say they don't know how to be flexible.

"Anger is better than success" said: "If you always argue and refute, you may win occasionally, but it is an empty victory, because you will never get the favor of the other side."

Argument is better than words, but it is defeated by people's hearts, exposing their low cognition.

On the contrary, people who dare to admit their shortcomings are truly great wisdom.

Lin Qingxuan took the children for a walk and passed a stall selling oil noodles. While making noodles, vendors can also talk and laugh with customers.

When leaving the noodle stand, the child said, "Dad, if you compete with the noodle seller to sell noodles, you will definitely lose!" " "

In the face of the child's sudden words, Lin Qingxuan smiled and said frankly: "Not only will you lose, but you will lose miserably."

The Analects of Confucius said: "Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, but knowing."

It is great wisdom to realize your ignorance.

It is a kind of self-restraint and wisdom to admit the Excellence of others and your ignorance without arguing.

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The more single-minded people are, the more they love to wrangle.

People with low cognitive level are single-minded, narrow-minded and lack certain judgment.

It's like seeing a young girl driving a luxury car and wearing luxury goods, and drawing a conclusion: either her father has money or she has money on michel platini.

Because of their limited cognitive level, such people think that there is only one standard answer to things and instinctively reject other possibilities.

In Eternal Dragon Slayer, Zhao Min pretends to be Zhang Wuji and leads a crowd to besiege the Wu Tang Gang.

Zhang Sanfeng, who was seriously injured, taught Zhang Wuji martial arts moves on the spot.

While waiting to see Zhang Wuji's jokes, Zhang Sanfeng just kept silent and asked Zhang Wuji again and again, do you remember what the moves were like?

When Zhang Wuji answered "I completely forgot", people became more and more cynical. Instead, Zhang Sanfeng said we could have a competition.

To everyone's surprise, Zhang Wuji repelled three enemies in a row.

Rockwell said: "Insight first comes from thinking that Otawa is suspicious."

The higher a person's cognitive level, the more diversified his thinking will be and the more willing he is to accept other possibilities.

On the other hand, the lower the cognitive level, the more single thinking, unable to accept other possibilities, and like to wrangle.

Communicating with people with different cognition often leads to a sense of helplessness.

You said that learning is very important, and he said that people with good grades work for people with poor grades.

You said it was important to make money, but he argued that a simple life is happiness, and it has nothing to do with money.

Because of my limited knowledge, I abruptly denied other possibilities in my life.

In the final analysis, wrangling is not so much a refutation of other people's bad habits as a manifestation of single thinking and insufficient cognition.

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The more narrow-minded people are, the more they love to wrangle.

Writer Li said: "People who love to wrangle never pursue right or wrong. They just like to suppress others blindly, and winning is the result they want. "

The more narrow-minded people are, the more they like to argue to prove their existence.

I have a colleague who complains all day about overwork and poor treatment, and I have never met a leader with a unique vision like Bole.

I asked him why he didn't quit his job and find another job he liked.

He said: "If you quit your job and have no income, you can't live. Now you are still alive. "

I said I can save money from now on, find a part-time job on weekends and prepare to resign.

Colleague replied: "I'm exhausted." If you don't work overtime on weekends, you have to sleep. "

In this way, colleagues are in the whirlpool of wrangling and spitting every day, consuming their own energy.

Zhou said: "Life should have indisputable wisdom."

People with broad patterns know how not to quarrel.

As the saying goes, "always compete with peers, not fools."

People with real patterns know how to stay away from wrangling and focus on more important things.

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For the rest of your life, please stay away from people who love to wrangle.

There is a "personal construal theory" in psychology, which refers to a person's cognition and is an idea formed by past knowledge, thinking and experience.

Cognitive level is the biggest gap between people.

How to improve the cognitive level and stay away from the essence of bars?

First of all, don't argue with the hitter. You are right. Just ignore it like a mad dog bites you.

In the world of leverage, they don't talk about facts, only about emotions.

Don't argue with elites just because the facts are invincible, they often can't win.

Second, accept the existence of different voices.

There is a saying in the Buddhist language: "Except prejudice, everything reaches people's hearts and there is no boundary."

Many times, because we are obsessed with self-knowledge, we are biased against everything else.

We might as well keep a "hollow" attitude and tolerate thousands of streams, so as to enhance our understanding and forge a good relationship.

Kimi, the star, died, and countless netizens rushed to Chen Qiaoen, Weibo, and cursed: "Why didn't you send a Weibo when your good friend died? Are you still human? "

In the face of disaster, Ma Yun Weibo will comment: "You are so rich, why do you donate so much?"

This kind of person always likes to mind other people's business and can't stand other people's different ideas.

Seemingly confident, but in fact full of inferiority.

True high cognition can tolerate different people and things, accept different voices, may not understand, but will try to see the world from the perspective of others.

Finally, think more and don't follow suit.

The Analects of Confucius said: "Learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is lazy."

Learning without thinking is useless; If you only dream and don't study, you will be confused.

Learning and thinking complement each other to improve cognition.

When I meet people and things at different levels, I accept them with a broad mind and then internalize my thinking for my use.

For the rest of my life, I hope you will be in your arms next month, less picky, more tolerant, more considerate, more self-disciplined and self-disciplined, and realize the life you want.