I am married to a man who is 30 years older than me, but I feel unhappy. What should I do?

If you marry a man who is 30 years older than you, you must first look at what your purpose is. The man is now nearly 60. It is normal to decline in some aspects, and it is inevitable to be indifferent to you. , you should consider this before getting married. You said you have differences on having children. If I were that man, I wouldn't even bother having children. After all, I am nearly 60 years old. I am already 80 years old when my children go to college. What do I want? Whether he will live to that age is hard to say.

There are only two ways in front of you. The first is to continue living. The man’s health will definitely get worse and worse, his face will become older and older, and there will be various symptoms of the elderly. For this kind of illness, you must be mentally prepared to support him in his future life and fulfill your obligations as a wife. As for what he can give you, it depends on his conditions.

The second way is to separate from him. I don’t know if you will feel at ease if you do this. After all, it is your choice for a man to marry you. If you leave him now without sufficient reasons, it will be inevitable. It will cause harm to him. After separation, you are still young and can pursue your own happiness. Don't be impatient at this time. Make your move when you are right. Don't find a man to marry quickly just to prove yourself. This is very unreliable. I have seen it. There are many examples of women jumping from one fire pit to another, and they are not even as good as their original husbands.

Girls must think carefully before getting married, and try to avoid a too big age difference between the two parties. This will cause a generation gap, and there are many aspects that cannot be compensated for, including differences in opinions and physical differences. It's hard to go back.