Because of the house, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fell out and quarreled during the New Year. Mother-in-law: I am eccentric. What can you do?

Spring Festival couplets are posted on the 29th of New Year's Day.

My husband wrote all the Spring Festival couplets in my family. He bought red paper in advance and wrote one for each of his relatives at home. My mother-in-law said that because my husband wrote Spring Festival couplets, my family saved hundreds of dollars in writing Spring Festival couplets every year.

I calculated with my mother-in-law. In fact, each family spends only 3 yuan a year on Spring Festival couplets. In my opinion, there is really no need for a family to have a conflict over these 3 dollars.

But there are contradictions in the countryside for this 35 yuan.

A neighbor of my husband's family has two sons. She lives with her eldest son, while her youngest son lives alone. Every year during the Spring Festival, the old people buy Spring Festival couplets for their two families. Two years ago, the old man bought money for his little daughter-in-law. The old man said, "I just bought it for you. You should pay for it yourself."

her little daughter-in-law asked her, "can't you get out of the old family?" If you want to buy it for her, you have to buy it for me. They are all sons. Why are you so biased? "

The old lady said, "It's different. I bought it for her, just for myself. We live in a home. "

two people quarrel almost every year because of this matter. The old man thinks the little daughter-in-law is too unfilial. The little daughter-in-law thinks the old man is too eccentric.

In fact, it's only a matter of tens of dollars, but both of them have to fight for their own "reason".

In order to punish the little daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law prepared Spring Festival couplets, but asked the little daughter-in-law to buy them for 35 yuan.

On the 29th of this year, my little daughter-in-law went to the old man's house to get Spring Festival couplets as usual. However, the old man said, "With 35 yuan, you can't let me buy it for you every year. I am an old man, and it is not easy to earn money. "

the little daughter-in-law said, "I don't have any money. If you have the ability, give it to your son. "

The old man is determined this time. If the little daughter-in-law doesn't take the money, she just won't give it. She said to her neighbor, "I'll save it for next year."

The little daughter-in-law refused to let it go, quarreled with her mother-in-law in the yard and smashed all the eggs she had just bought. Women always love to dig up old scores when they quarrel. The little daughter-in-law stood at the gate of the courtyard, crying while shouting: "I have never seen such eccentric parents, posting Spring Festival couplets every year, and she pays for the old ones, but she won't come out of our house." Everyone's children, she can see them when she goes out, and look after them every day. My two children are so old, has she gone to have a look?

If a parent spends 35 yuan on his son, he will give it to me. I'm not that unreasonable. If you ask the boss to pay 35 yuan, I'll pay 35 yuan. I won't give a cent until the boss gives it. Why are you so eccentric when you are generally long? "

The old man is also full of grievances. When she saw her daughter-in-law deliberately losing face, she made a scene outside the courtyard and let her neighbors see her jokes. Throwing caution to the wind, she stood at the door and scolded her daughter-in-law: "I'm just partial. What's the matter? I'm so angry with you." In the future, I'll just stick to the boss, that is, I won't help you look after the children, that is, I won't spend you a penny. I am like this, you see if your husband can support me in the future. "

I saw this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the countryside, and I still don't understand one point:

Why are men completely excluded by two women? It seems that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, that is, the two of them don't get along well and have nothing to do with the man in the middle.

Just like this little daughter-in-law's husband, his wife and mother are both beaten like this, and he is always indifferent.

The most terrible thing is that this little daughter-in-law said next: "You are partial. You are partial to your son's divorce, and you will be happy. I divorced your son, and it's all your fault. He has such a mother that I divorced him. "

Then this little daughter-in-law went back to her parents' house on the 29th of the New Year.

The neighbors, including my mother-in-law, advised the old man, "For the New Year's Day, what about you for this 35 yuan?" She's gone back. When you pay New Year's greetings on the first day, your youngest son won't be a joke. "

Then, the mother-in-law said something like this: "It took my son eight generations of bad luck to marry such a daughter-in-law. If she doesn't come back, let my son and grandson eat with me. I can't see her, but I'm still happy. Anyway, the child is also at school. If she doesn't come back, don't come back and see if our family can live without her. "

how many old people have become enemies with their daughters-in-law, but they don't think about their son's lack in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

one thing I can't figure out in particular is why doesn't this mother-in-law ask her little son for money? Why does she have to ask her daughter-in-law for money? I heard from my mother-in-law that sometimes men get Spring Festival couplets, and the old man didn't ask for money. But when she meets her daughter-in-law, she will mention it to her daughter-in-law.

isn't the money of a son different from that of a daughter-in-law?

why do you have to ask your daughter-in-law for money? And why can't men take the initiative to give their mothers money to completely solve this matter?

He knows that his wife and mother quarrel about this matter every year. Why doesn't he ask for Spring Festival couplets himself and buy money for his mother?

but if this man comes forward, this quarrel will not happen. But as long as the old man talks with his son about it, there will be no quarrel. But the old man did not look for his son, but only his daughter-in-law, and asked her to pay the money.

what's her purpose?

what she wants is not only the 35 yuan, but also the obedience of her little daughter-in-law. She wants to show her little daughter-in-law that she shouldn't spend a penny on them. She gave them money, and the little daughter-in-law will pay it back.

it's right for old people to think like this. After all, children have their own homes after they get married, and they should bear their own living expenses. But there is such a point, the old man has two sons.