You like children very much, but what about your husband?

You'd better know why your husband doesn't want children first. It turns out that my husband and I agreed to get married without children. The most important thing is that the economic conditions are not very good and I don't want to have children and suffer. After five years of marriage, I really wanted to have children and quarreled with him. I really almost got separated. He actually likes children very much, but the financial pressure is too great. He felt unable to support his children. He has been working hard to make the economic conditions better and then have children.

You have to understand that having a baby is not a trivial matter, not that I like it very much, so it is irresponsible for me to have a baby. You know, this is a life. Have you ever determined whether you can take up the responsibility of raising a new life? This is not the same as keeping a pet. I don't like it today. I want to keep it. If I don't like it tomorrow, I can give it to others Also, the cost of having children will multiply in the future. Have you determined whether your conditions are really affordable?

Besides, are you sure you have to have children? Is it because you can't have children or other reasons? If you must have children, you must divorce. Do you really like children? Or just children can give you a sense of security in marriage? Whether to have children or not is a personal choice, and there is no right or wrong. However, this kind of thing should be made clear before marriage. Maybe you don't want to have children before marriage, or you are noncommittal about his idea of not having children. Then it is wrong for you to force him at this time.

Finally, I hope you can understand that raising a child can't be supported by just liking it. This is no joke. Communicate more between husband and wife. I hope you can communicate a result acceptable to everyone, just like my husband and I.