Is it a shame to get pregnant before marriage?

Generally, most people will feel ashamed. For example, Xiaoxi and her boyfriend met in college and once fell in love with each other vigorously. Friends think it's a good match, saying that they often give out dog food. In my junior year, my boyfriend rented a house outside while attending class. Like the old routine, Xiaoxi also moved in with her boyfriend.

When I was in the third year of high school, one day Xiaoxi found that she had not menstruated for almost two months. She bought a pregnancy test stick and measured two. The stream panicked. Boyfriend took Xiaoxi to the hospital for examination. The stream was thinking about what to do all the way, expecting and fearing the baby in its belly. Sure enough, they were "recruited". Facing the little life that is taking shape in the belly, Xiaoxi and her boyfriend were really at a loss at first. Xiaoxi told the news to her best friend, but her best friend's answer made her feel bad.

First, my best friend scolded Xiaoxi's boyfriend, then told Xiaoxi not to make public and quickly chose a time to get married. However, Xiaoxi and her boyfriend are only seniors, and it is likely that they will be laughed at for "taking the ball" to the graduation ceremony. Premarital pregnancy is shameful in people's minds, especially when Xiaoxi and her boyfriend are still students.

The stream is a little sad. Why is it shameful not to get married and have children? Do unmarried people with children have to abort their children in order not to lose face? Xiaoxi and her boyfriend really love each other and plan to get married in the future, but the children come a little early. Wouldn't it be more cruel to abort the child? Xiaoxi has seen some pictures explaining how to abort a child. Xiaoxi can't imagine that the baby in her belly is being aborted.

Fortunately, my boyfriend was more responsible, so he told his parents on the same day that they planned to go to Xiaoxi's parents' house with them in a few days and get the certificate first. Xiaoxi and her boyfriend want to keep their children, but they don't want to get married hastily. Xiaoxi doesn't mind getting pregnant before marriage. After all, the wedding is just a formality. It's just that Xiaoxi feels a little guilty about telling her parents the news. Parents are very traditional people, which may be difficult to accept at the moment.

There is no shame in getting pregnant before marriage. Even celebrities have many examples of premarital pregnancy: Sha Yi and Hook, Sun Li and Deng Chao, Tian Liang and Ye Yixi ... Even though they were pregnant before marriage, they are now living happily. For Xiaoxi and her boyfriend, the most important thing is their school status. Premature pregnancy before marriage is a sign of extreme irresponsibility to others. How can I be a good parent when I was a child? Some people will grow up overnight, and some people will "live on their laurels" without welcoming a life, but unexpectedly having a child's age.

In any case, it is not a shame to get pregnant before marriage when you were a student, but whether you can take the responsibility of being a parent and be responsible for this little life is the most important thing. So at the moment of passion, please think more about those "ifs" and show more respect for life. By the time you really "cook raw rice into mature rice", you have no time to think about shame.