Why do some people look younger as they live?

There is no such thing as "reverse growth" in the world. !

Is there such a thing as "getting younger as you live" and "20 this year, next year 18"? !

There may be reincarnation or something, which is beyond the scope of this discussion. For example, the master Liang Shuming clearly recognized his concept of reincarnation: "I am a Buddhist, because I am afraid of being laughed at, I have never told anyone." A person has this life, a past life and an afterlife. I was a monk in my last life. "

Someone praised you for being "so young!" Knowing your age. Friends who haven't seen you for many years or even more than ten years boast that you have "regressed!" Some people even ask you the "secret of youth" in an exaggerated way ... although they know that the other party is exaggerating, this PMP (flattery) is still very pleasing. Although, you know very well, that is, the other party can chat and talk. May be engaged in the insurance industry or other marketing work, and know well the way of "lowering the age for everyone and increasing the money for goods".

I heard that the first version of "reducing age for everyone and increasing wealth for goods" was "increasing wealth for goods when people are short-lived". At that time, the company hired insurance company trainers to train marketing knowledge. I heard it was very fresh, and I always remember it.

This "allusion" comes from "Lala" and vividly explains a highly operable principle of interpersonal communication. "Everyone will get old". Try to guess people's age in a small room. For example, it is clear that the old man is almost 70 years old. Guess TA "You are 50 years old?" No matter old people or old ladies, most people will be happy and feel very proud; "Add money when you meet goods" means to say 300 yuan or 500 yuan when you see that other people's things are only worth 100 yuan, and then praise the other person for knowing the goods and having a good eye and buying such a cheap good thing.

This is not "fake" or "thick black", it is a kind of human practice, a so-called chat, and a manifestation of high emotional intelligence.

I met a lady dressed like a fairy. Fairy is wearing the kind of clothes that are popular in the past two years, such as Hanfu or tea clothes, cotton and linen clothes, long hair and waist, and usually brings beads and bracelets, just like the little dragon girl in Jin Yong's novels. Elegant, calm, calm. Xianer.

People like me, who usually wear sportswear and have short hair for decades, usually only admire. The point is that she looks young. I thought she was born after 70 or early 80, but I didn't expect to be born after 60.

Then, a bunch of people praised her for being "so young", "my sister grew up against the trend", "how to maintain it" and "teach us" ...

Sister Xianer smiled and could see that she was very happy. She said modestly, "Where ..." Then everyone changed the subject and talked about something else.

I am often praised as young. Although I am "a big age".

I met an acquaintance I hadn't seen for fifteen years in the swimming pool. We used to work in the Youth League. He has gained weight, and I can hardly recognize him. Probably my appearance hasn't changed much, my hair is still as short as it was 15 years ago, and the mole on my nose is still there. He called out my name and I remembered who he was. He said, "You haven't changed much. I recognized you immediately. You seem to have lost a lot of weight ... "

"well. Yes, I am at least twenty pounds thinner than fifteen years ago. "

I almost didn't recognize you. If you don't say hello to me, you won't know each other when you meet in the street! You are much fatter than before ... "On the way back, I thought of what I said to him and felt that I was really becoming more and more unsuitable for chatting. How could I forget to add money when I get old!

So, what I want to write is to look "younger and younger" and "reverse growth".

First of all, keep in good shape. My parents went to Nanjing to attend a junior high school reunion last year. After more than 60 years, except for a few classmates who kept coming and going, it is estimated that all the classmates met with strangers who were full of deja vu and recognized each other by their names in their memories.

I saw the photos they took together. Both men and women are thin, in good shape and look young. An old man with a big belly often looks as if he can't move. While looking at the photos, I said to my dad, "It's hard to lose weight if you buy the old ones, and it's hard to lose weight if you buy the young ones ..." So, I have to think that my 70-and 80-year-old classmates may meet my first love, or I should exercise regularly to keep fit.

Incidentally, Vanke just announced the list of members of the new board of directors yesterday. Wang Shi is no longer nominated as a director. When Vanke 1984 was founded, it weighed 69 kilograms. More than 30 years have passed, and his current weight is 67 kilograms. He said in a speech: "When people get to middle school, their weight will increase and their stomachs will also increase. I care more about my body shape, so I didn't increase it, but lost 2 kilograms. " Wang Shi, 66, looks much younger than many people who are going to be seven, doesn't he? I won't give examples of women, but I will do a lot.

Wang Shi's picture comes from Vanke Weekly.

Secondly, don't be superstitious about cosmetics. Zhu Tianyi wrote about her mother-in-law. She only washed her face with water all her life, without any cosmetics, and her face was as smooth as a girl. Zhu Tianyi was born in 1960. Her mother-in-law is almost eighty years old.

I read an article when I was very young. Maybe a former colleague told me, but I don't remember who told me: "Girls don't need makeup until they are 25 years old ... cosmetics contain chemical components, which are bad for the skin." I think this is very meaningful. Your young face is your capital. You don't need to wear too much makeup unless your career needs it. Isn't it amazing to paint in public occasionally without makeup?

Of course, lipstick and lipstick should be used every day. Even without makeup, people who only wear lipstick look very energetic. Also, although I do a lot of housework, my hands look well maintained, because even now, in summer, I always apply hand cream after washing my hands. There is a saying I saw in the Reader that year, which is still fresh in my memory: "It depends on a person's hands." If you can't pamper yourself, at least don't let a pair of hardworking hands be covered with wrinkles and cracks.

Don't go to the beauty salon often. Often go to the beauty salon to scrub the scraped skin, and there will be "beauty face". Although it seems that "blowing bullets can break", some people can still see the bloodshot on their faces clearly, and their faces are really scary. Hyaluronic acid? Hehe, you don't need to live by your face, forget it.

I have a former colleague who is a beauty. She is still beautiful. She liked dancing when she was young, and now she often participates in activities such as "Cheongsam Show". The cosmetics she usually uses are "children's moisturizing oil". She told me: "There are often no additives, which are not irritating to children ..." She also said that even unscrupulous manufacturers dare not make fun of children (Sanlu milk melamine was later). So I've been using children's moisturizer.

Don't pluck your eyebrows often. When the eyebrows need to be repaired, use a professional eyebrow trimmer to scrape off the hair of foreign bodies instead of pulling it off. If you often pull out your eyebrows, "what an old wrinkled eyelid will be harvested after many years." This sentence in quotation marks was said by Jing Yidan, a sister of CCTV. I happened to read it in a magazine. Just remember. Listen, it's always good to read more books, right?

Read more books. Besides knowing common sense and knowledge of life. Probably easy to make people feel young? The so-called "reading more books will naturally change your appearance" may also have the truth that "reading will make people live younger and younger".

Also, be curious. The so-called "people are not old." People who have no curiosity will age quickly! This is not an alarmist. Medicine proves that "old people who are not curious age faster!"

If a person has no "curiosity", he is probably really old. Usually, we know that children are childlike and curious. They want to explore everything and ask everything. They are older, because they are well informed, cross more bridges than others, eat more salt than young people, and often take an indifferent attitude towards many things. People who are curious about new things and study hard are usually full of youthful vitality. How to keep curiosity? I think it can also be a kind of study and exercise.

1, don't label yourself. One of my sisters told me that she may be going through menopause, and she wants to be angry if she doesn't like anyone ... well, I think menopause is a label like adolescence. Not all people will have adolescent rebellion, but will have menopausal irritability and depression. Forget this word, don't post it, and don't mark yourself old. Don't label anything boring.

2. Be sensitive to new things and changes around you, and often ask questions you don't know. Take my own example. When I went swimming yesterday, I thought, where did all this water go? About 2000 cubic meters of water is directly discharged into the sewer (I think it is a waste), and it can also be used for urban sprinklers in cooperation with the sanitation department (naive) ... Then, I really asked the staff of the swimming pool. They told me that I had been discharged from hospital.

Similar questions, such as taking the green leather train before, I wonder where the passengers went after going to the toilet. I guess it's directly discharged to the tracks, and people in the same industry say it's impossible. I immediately sent a message to my friend on the railway. It is inconvenient to surf the Internet without WeChat. He told me: "Go straight to the railway".

Then tell me, what about on the plane? What about on the train?

Then if you eat a dish in a restaurant, will you learn to cook it? Have you ever thought about how others do it? I have a female friend who is pampered before marriage and doesn't touch spring water. Now she knows almost everything about martial arts, especially food. She cooks more and eats less, saying that watching others eat is also a kind of enjoyment. Oh, she looks so young!

Is it useful to have such curiosity? Of course, this shows that your brain is still running at high speed and curious about new things. You are an interesting person, a pure person, a living person and a young man. You may be 60, 70 years old ... even 100 years old, but you have a curious young heart.

3. study. Never too old to learn. "Never too old to learn" is no longer enough. In this era, if you can't use a smart phone, you really can't buy a ticket or get a car. The future is the era of artificial intelligence. If you don't keep your learning ability, keep your curiosity about new knowledge and skills, and keep pace with the times, you will have a hard time. You might die ugly, too.

I'd better boast. Because this life is rarely praised and praised, we must love ourselves and praise ourselves. This is also one of the secrets of staying young!

I have been watching Sir for the past two days. I have a good habit of reading. When I meet words I don't know, I will definitely look them up in the dictionary and mark them in pinyin. So although I have no higher education, I still have culture.

On page 234 of this book, I saw a word, which is very similar to the word "yamen", but the "five" above the middle word "mouth" is "vector". I didn't write this word by hand on my mobile phone, I didn't use strokes, I didn't use five strokes on my computer, so I looked it up in the dictionary. There is no such thing in the modern Chinese dictionary! I guess it's in Kangxi dictionary or Ci Hai. I don't have these two books at home. What should I do?

My nephew loves Chinese studies. He has read the book Sir twice. He may know the pronunciation of this word. But he is in class, so I can't ask. On second thought, I photographed "Tao Xingya" with the "Scribble Notes" APP. I have recommended this software to many people. Although the converted word is still "Tao Xing Ya", I entered these three words into Baidu and found the answer in "homework help".

It turned out that Tao Xingzhi made the words himself. The unity of knowing and doing, reading gan, should mean "doing" and represent practice.

Alas, Wu Zetian can type "Qi". Why didn't anyone include the word created by Mr. Tao Xingzhi in dictionaries, mobile phone systems and computer fonts? There must be a way to type, otherwise how to print books? If you know which input method can be typed, you can tell me. As shown in the figure below)

If I knew I had to publish it, I could write better:)

You are almost fifty years old, you are almost five years old; Almost sixty, almost seven ... so what? Forget your age! Follow the feeling of youth, and then, the more you live, the younger you are.

Wish you all the best!

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