Angel Lecture Hall: The angrier you get when a child wets the bed, the more the child loves to wet the bed, which is a vicious circle.

Nothing is better than gently waking up the children next to you in the morning.

But when you find that your child's clothes and trousers are all wet, can you hold back your anger?

Remember! Never growl in front of children. For example: "You wet the bed, and you want to be shameless?" "How old are you? Still wet the bed. " In this case, let's keep it in mind. Don't even talk about children wetting the bed as a topic with people around you.

First, bed wetting is a trivial matter, but the consequences of improper handling are very serious.

When Nuo Nuo (pseudonym) was five years old, he occasionally wet the bed. Her grandmother always tells it as a joke to others, and the whole neighborhood knows it, which makes the children very embarrassed. Every day after school, when she walks to her door, she hopes that everyone around her will disappear, so that no one will look at her differently. In this way, children wet the bed more often.

This anxiety has been haunting the child. Because of her busy work, she didn't take her children to see a doctor. She always thought that she would be better when she grew up. After graduating from primary school, children still have the habit of wetting the bed before taking their children to see a doctor.

It can be seen that children can't blame for wetting the bed. The child's mood is very sensitive. If parents blame, ridicule and abuse their children after wetting the bed, it will only deepen their anxiety and make it more and more difficult for them to get rid of the habit of wetting the bed. Even in adolescence, they still wet the bed.

Second, the more angry children are, the more they love to wet the bed, which is a vicious circle.

A single man in his late thirties has been suffering from depression. In retrospect, all this has a lot to do with his bed wetting at the age of 5.

As a teacher, his parents criticized him for it, which made him feel ashamed. The next night, he was worried that he had wet the bed again. Unexpectedly, he really wet the bed again under high tension, a vicious circle. ...

In fact, he hasn't wet the bed often since he was three years old. The harsher his parents punish him, the more serious he is; I lost my normal life, my self-confidence, and I was afraid to go to boarding school ... Finally, I found that my bed wetting was not only a physical problem, but also a psychological problem. ...

In the baby's growth stage, bed wetting is very normal and common. Most children can control urination during the day when they are 3 years old and at night when they are 4 years old, but many preschool children still wet their beds occasionally. According to statistics, about 20% children aged 5, 10% children aged 7 and 5% children aged 10 still wet their beds.

Third, why do children wet the bed?

Most children can't wet the bed without the following reasons:

1. Genetic factors: The incidence of enuresis is high among children's parents or siblings;

2. Excessive deficiency of lead and zinc;

3. Organic nervous system diseases: cerebral cortex development retardation and central awakening disorder;

4. Insufficient secretion of pituitary antidiuretic hormone (ADH);

5. Organic urinary system diseases and bladder dysfunction;

6. Psychological factors: trauma, eccentric temper, loneliness, timidity and unsociable;

7, sleep too deep: failed to wake up immediately when the bladder swelled after falling asleep.

Tips: It's not the child's fault to wet the bed. If you love your child, please take him to see a doctor when he wets the bed. Don't scold the children at will. Without so many complaints and accusations, children will feel more support psychologically!

Guangzhou Angel Children Hospital

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